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I have never had a boyfriend before. I am thinking of asking a guy out soon. But how do you ask a guy out? and if you're going out ... what do you do?? all of the relationships ive ever seen have been horrible to say the least, so I haven't even been able to see it before... So I am really in the dark... I hate feeling this way when im already 16 years old!! thanks for any help... and for not thinking I'm a complete loser!
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I know this is well-removed, but you didn't get many answers.
My friend Laura would say this to you:
Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
--Jack
(16/m)
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Relationships take a lot of work. Don't just ask out anyone to get experience or be able to say you have a boyfriend. It is important to choose someone you really care about and someone that you can trust really cares about you. There are plenty of ways to ask someone out, but the best way to go is not to have someone do it for you. Just be straightforward and ask if they will go out with you. Don't rush into any relationship. You have seen what others have gone through and waited until you are ready and because of what you have seen, it has made you unsure on what a relationship is supposed to be like. You are definitely not a loser. Wait for someone special to put all your time, effort and care towards. When you are with him, youll know exactly how you want the relationship to be and how you want to spend your time together. Going to the movies and getting a bite to eat are the classic dates, but not the only kind. Spend time together doing things you enjoy. I hope I cleared things up a little for you. If you need anything else im here.
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it's kinda weird for a girl to ask out a girl.
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Well, once you ask this guy out, & ya'll are "dating" lol, then basically you do fun things together. Play video games (im sure he'd love that), go to the movies, go out to dinner, go skating, run together, swimming (well, in the summer), and just any other fun things to do together. watch a movie together at your place or his. I'm sure you can think of more fun things! But pretty much, i think that if you dont stress out too much girl, you'll get the hang of it quick! :)
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