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Is Highschool Scary?
Is highschool scary? What's it like? What should I expect?
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I wouldn't say it's scary, persay,But when you first go to highschool, you will realize there's ALOT of people, you may know some, you may not.It's really not that bad.If you pick the good crowd and don't cause drama, you'll be okay.Do beware of some rude people though.Don't take it personally.It's not that bad though.Just get to your class, make friends, and have fun.You will have some of the best days of your life, then there will be some pretty awful days.I'm pretty sure you'll have a good time though.If you have any other questions, go ahead.I'm all ears and willing to answer any of your questions. :] Hope I helped some.
<3 Lacey
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I LOVE high school. Last year, my freshman year, I was scared out of my mind for about.. the first hour. After that it was so much fun. don't be scared! Meeting new friends, teachers, and having a ton of new freedom is great. Middle school was okay, but high school is even better. Don't be scared. be confident in yourself and don't be afraid to ask questions. Take risks! Have fun!!
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it really isn't all its cracked up to be. its fun actually getting to know all new people. you really learn who your real friends are. but it has alot more freedom than middle school & alot more fun. but don't get worried its not scary or seniors wont pick on you its not that badd.
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High school is the BEST. it's wayyyy better than middle school because everyone is getting out of their insecure awkward stages. it gives you a lot more independence and they dont beat you up or anything. you'll love it.
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Oh terrifying...not really =]
I was a bit nervous at first though, because it's a new school and tons of new people. It's really not bad though. I was a freshman last year and I had a great year.
I found high school is a bit like starting middle school all over again, making new friends, meeting new teachers, and whatnot only bigger. It was really fun though. I'd suggest that you don't worry and just make the most out of the year.
Make new friends, I found that was my favorite part of high school thus far.
And don't mess with the older kids. They walk around like hotshots, and chances are, they won't treat you equally.
Just stay away from older kids and do what makes you happy and you will be fine! =]
Make sure to also, not get caught up in peer pressure (drinking, etc.)
I don't know about you, but that's a hue thing at my high school. Just stay focused, and don't get mixed up in all that pointless stuff.
Good Luck!
<3 Laura.
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Hello.
I was a freshman last year- and I have to say.. it was one of the most scary things I've EVER experienced! I was thrown in the trash can on the first day and it was horrible. Some kid even had to go to the emergency room! It was the WORST first day of school of my entire life! I almost didn't go back!
Haha- so hopefully you didn't take that seriously- because it really wasn't like that at all. I always play that trick on people who ask this question. C'mon- I gotta have a little fun! High school is NOT scary. It actually is a lot more fun. You have more freedoms than middle school and you can take REALLY awesome classes.
Here is my list of DOs and DON'Ts:
Do:
-Do all of your homework.
-Make new friends [some old ones will naturally just fade away].
-Ask the teacher for help if you need it.
Don't:
-Don't talk to seniors.. they most likely DON'T like you. The won't give you any respect.
-Don't wear revealing clothing- seniors will automatically hate you.
All in all- if you just be yourself- you'll be fine. If you have upperclassmen in any classes- you'll get to know them over the course of the year- and you may end up meeting some really great people. I know that some of my best friends I met at school last year- and most of them were 10th grade or older. Not all seniors hate you- some will be welcoming- but just assume the worst in them, at first. After awhile- you'll know who to avoid and who to warm up to. You'll be fine. Don't worry.
--Jack
(15/m/Sophomore)
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No you shouldn't be afraid. High school can be a scary place but if you find the right friends, and steer clear of drama, it can be really fun. In highschool there are lots of different people, so it's kind of cool because you can match up with people you have things in common with. You should expect to be pressured into lots of things (partying,drugs,smoking,cheating) but if you hold your head up high it should work out just fine. Stay true to yourself. Focus on schoolwork, because high school counts. Good luck!:) Remember it's not all that scary!
M
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nope ... high school isn't scary =) it may make you nervous like most people but high school will probaly be the BEST 4 years of your life. just be yourself and don't worry about it so much. you'll get used to it
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Honestly, you're going to be scared when you first walk in. There will be a ton of older kids walking around acting like they own the place, even kids a year older than you. I bet the first couple days will bill nervewrecking, but it's really not that bad. By the end of the first week, you'll be fine. You have all of your friends there with you. I remember going into highschool and I was so nervous going into gymclass with all the older kids because they knew eachother, by my best friends older sister let me sit by her and hang out with her the first couple of days. It was really nice. You'll feel comfortable in no time, once you get the hang of where all of your classes are & such. It'd be helpful if you went to the school during the summer and walked around getting to know all of your classes, since you only get a couple minutes in between. I can guarentee by the end of the month you'll be acting like you own the place. =)
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I know how scary being an upcoming freshman can be. I haven't forgotten, because I was absolutely terrified. I actually threw up on my first day of school. Everyone is usually always scared about some sort of Freshman Friday that the Seniors have told them about, but nine times out of ten there is no such thing. For example, the last week of my 8th grade year, a bunch of the Freshmen at the time told us all the new Freshmen got thrown over the Senior Hill. Just so you know, our school is on a mountain/cliff like thing, and on the side of it is a huge drop to a river. Kind of scary, I know. I was scared out of my mind about it, however it never happened. Turns out, it was all just a joke to keep us scared out of our minds. The worst that happened to me was that I got lost in the hallways a few times. My goodness, I can't stress enough that
High School Is Not That Bad.
The first day is scary. The first day is always scary. But most have freshman orientation and I guarentee that you aren't the only one nervous. Take advantage of the situation and make some friends if you don't already have some. All highschools are different, but usually on your first day you'll walk to your homeroom and the teacher will talk to you and tell you everything you need to know. He or She will tell you where your classes are and how to get there. If you have any questions then would be the time to ask. Try making a different set of friends in every class. By tommorow, you will most likely have plenty.
My Freshman year turned out to be great. I was dating my boyfriend (who at the time was a Junior) and my town is so small, that I already knew everyone. If you don't, take it to it's advantage and make some new friends. I'm an upcoming Junior now, but I could careless about the upcoming Freshman, and I doubt anyone in your school will care either. I hate a few of the Freshman, and then love some others. It's not the class most people hate, it's a select few in the class. Basically, you probably won't get picked on. Older kids could usually care less about Freshmen. A few immature upperclassmen may pick on you, and if they do just ignore them. Sadly you are probably much more mature than them.
If you are worried about "popular people" don't be. People don't seem to understand what the world "popular" means anymore. It means people like you, and people get along with you. Obviously many have forgotten that. Kids who are usually considered "popular" in highschool don't have many friends. They are usually stuck up, and you don't want to be or be around that. They are snobs. Plain and simple. Don't let them get to you. If you didn't have a problem with it in middle school then it probably won't be a problem in highschool either.
Just remember, you have a lot more freedom as a highschool student. That freedom can be an amazing thing, but with it comes responsibility. If you are responsible, then it's not bad. If you aren't, then it deffinately is.
I'm a Junior now and I have had my share of good and bad experiences at the highschool. There are a few things I have done that I wish I didn't, and a few things I would never change. Overall highschool has been one of the best experiences of my life so far, and i'm sure it will be one of yours as well.
In the end, don't be nervous. It's the same as elementry & middle, only better. Highschool is what you make it, so make it great.
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