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oral sex
ive never given oral sex before, but even just brushing my teeth, i choke all the time. will i choke will giving oral? how can i make myself not choke?
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At the back of your throat you have what is called the uvula (not the vulva that's another body part) it's a soft tissue (a palate) that hangs down over your throat. You've probably seen it tons of times before or even hit it while brushing your teeth.
It also serves as a gag reflex so if you hit it with something long enough you will start retching (dry heave), sputtering, cough or feel like you are choking.
The mistake people make with oral sex is to think they have to take the whole penis in their mouth. Obviously, that's why they're experiencing the above sensations as they're hitting the uvula when they do it.
I cannot give you any answer resembling a how to but if you focus on taking part of the penis rather than all of in your mouth you'll be fine and won't be gagging.
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help4always is right you will almost likely choke. you might have really hig gag reflexes. the only way is to practice. and or to well get advice aka from here. its hard to explain. BUT a good tip that might work is try not to breath when you go down on him. i dont mean not breathering the whole time. but try breathing out your nose instead. that way the air wont be blocked by his..member.
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Chances are you will choke with oral. However, most people do their first time giving it. If he has a large penis you probably won't be able to fit all of it in your mouth, but thats ok. Put it in a little bit farther each time you give head. Like everything, it takes more time to get better at something.
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It's normal to choke a little bit on it. But you dont have to put the whole thing in there...Just work on it and see what your comfortable with...Dont push your limits.
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You don't have to take the whole penis in your mouth. Remember that. Take as much in as you can handle, and if you want put your hand at the base and move it as you're giving oral. =)
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you were hitting your gag reflex with the toothbrush, thats what gave you the weird feeling of like throwing up or gagging. if you go overboard while giving oral and have sensitive gag reflexes, youu will get the same gagging sensation. just know your boundaries and dont try putting the whole thing in if you know you cant. the first time you try it you will get a feel for what you feel comfortable with..and what is too much. my advice is to take it easy annd go slow so you figure out what would make you gag. good luck and any more questions definately inbox me! :)
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