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Jealous Friends.
Okay, i have a close friend and we'll call her 1 and i have another friend who's not as close but we'll call her 2. Both of my friends go to my school. 2 was coming over my house that day and 2 and me gave 1 a ride home. I didn't invite 1 to come with me and 2 because i hadn't spent any time with 2 in a long time. The next day i noticed right away 1 wasn't talking to me. 1 was still talking to 2, but the next day 1 wasn't tallking to me or 2. About a week later 2 called 1 and a few days after that 1 and 2 were talking again, but me 1 was still not talking to me. 3 weeks past and me 1 was STILL not talking to me!! Then came the last day of school..The last bell rang and we went to the front of the school like we do everyday and alot of people we usually stand with had started crying. I was one of those people and so was 1 and 2. 10 minutes later i hugged 1 and we started crying even more than before, we both said sorry over and over while we were crying. Now we're talking , but i still am not sure exactly why 1 stopped taling to me. Do you? if you have any idea, let me know!![All three of us are girls and we're all 14.]
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Ok. I see what you are saying. #1 is just probley jealous your hanging out with another friend and she doesnt like it. One thing I dont understand is why you were giving 1 a ride home.
Anyways, I think that #1 needs to get over it and I know its a good idea for you and #2 to try to get to know each other more. That has happened to me before. Its not your problem its the other friend who is jealous of you.
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You should ask her and talk to her about it to see exactly why. BUT, she probablly felt left out and unwanted. If you guys are all friends with eachother then why shouldn't you all be included? Time can still be spent with #2 but at least your not ditching #1. It would be different if #1 and #2 didnt get along but they do. Its important not to exclude anyone because then feelings get hurt, jealousy can come, and it can really actually hurt your relationship with them as you experienced the next day when she wouldnt talk to you guys. If you guys are eachothers friends then you should enjoy eachothers company together. Why not? It will only make you guys tighter and more bonded as a group. There is always lots of other times where you will be able to do things with #2 alone and with #1. But, if you're all together and you're dropping one off even when they want to still chill with u guys, thats kind of being mean because you're all friends right? #2 probablly felt even worse because she had no idea of the reason why you wouldn't ask her to come with you guys. Anyways, its good thing that you guys are friends again and next time have fun together (the more the merrier)
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Just go ask 1 and find out. It could be because 2 said somthing bad or a lie about you to 1. Im not sure the most important thing to do is ask.
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Well, how could we know what the deal is? We don't know 1, 2, or you.
What you need to do is ask 1. Only she can give you the answer you seek.
You guys have mended fences, so there is no reason you can't give her a call and say, 'Hey, did I do something wrong to cause you to not want to speak to me?'
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