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Well I love to give advice and all my friends and my school always ask me for advice and they say I do give good advice. Um, I love to relax and get pepole in the right moods and another thing is my e-mail address is really really old and dont think I am this preppy little girl. Im acually a surfer type girl and I love the beach, thats the only kind of pool Ill swim in. Well, Im kinda a rocker. Well thats all.

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ok i like this guy and he likes me back but the thing is i cant date so we're not going out. but is it bad if i kiss him? he always kisses me on the forehead and my head if i kiss him am i gonna be slutty?

No its not slutty. Its a part of liking people and relationships...but you dont want to go so stronge that you are going to be slutty. Like a little peck to show him you like him and its life...you only live it once!

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Hey i found a questio here called Eyebrows. I have the same problem as her except that instead of eyebrows, I can't stop plucking my eyelashes, and yes sometimes with my hand!

Can anyone help please?

Its not good to pluck eyelashes. You want to have pretty eyes and its not normal to do that...If its a habbgit find some other habbit.
That doesnt involve you hurting your appearance.

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Um if you never went to gymnastics before, can you still join even though you're thirteen or older?

I wanted to join gymnastics so just get a little flexible when I was little but we had no money and now when I excercise and try to kick up the highest i can get is a kindergarden's height even though i'm skinny.

Well...
Im in gymnastics right now and it does cost a little bit of alot of money...maybe sit down and talk to your parents about it.

Yeah You can be in gymnastics at any age...im 13 and Im doing them now...You have to do what youve gotta do because its kinda hard but fun...

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I really want to permanently dye my hair! It's not a big difference. My hair right now is light brown/dark blonde and I want to dye it dark/medium brown. My mom let me dye it and it stayed in for 28 days. I REALLY LIKED IT!!! how can I get her to let me dye it permanently? any tips?

Well when you dye it and you want it to stay you need to not take a shower for 3 days...kinda gross but if you want a new color you better do it...and I washed it the next day and my color came out...I dyed my dark..and now its like blonde. And my mom did it and its still dark.


Well...Not everyone can make perfect perdictions...
But Hope I helped.
Bye.

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my hair is down almost to my butt and i mean like not even an inch to my butt and well i really dont have anything to do with it i always put it in a pony tale or in a bun the only time i like it is when i straitin it which takes me like 2 hours to do and it cant be heathy for my hair if i keep heating it and its not curly its kinda wavy but and ugly wavy is there any websites that can show me some hairstyles i can try that are cute but easy to do thax

Well...I have long hair too. But mine is really longg and wavy/curly...and I have bangs...

Maybe if you get bangs and fix them everyday they would be cute...and you can also do brades...and bows...and up half down...and clips that are cute...thats what I do and I get lots of complements...Just take the time when you have it and sit down and do alot of hairstyles when your is down...And either go on google and type in some websites to find hairstyles..

Hope I helped.Bye.

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I was wondering, What do guys look for in a friend thats a girl ? Do they like someone who is more boyish?

No...not really because if you were more like a boy they would think they would be dating a guy...but if they had a lot in common like personality and love than that would be nice. But if you were like a boy then I dont think he would want to have a relationship with a girl/guy.

Hope I helped.
bye...

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Ok well my brother was sick and last night he slept with my teddy bear. He told me he didn't cough on it or anything but can i still get sick?

=/ if I can..what can i do about my bear? I can't describe what the fur is like but if it gets washed then it won't be the same no more

OK.......YOU CAN SPRAY FEBREEZE ON IT...Get over it your 13 you dont need a bear...WASH IT.
Bye.

Hope I helped.

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so, theres this boy i know at school. and everyone talkes about him in a good way. i really like him A LOT! he is so hot. but, he hates himself. he puts himself down, and doesn't think his life is worth anything. he doesnt want to go to college or do anything with his future. i feel bad for him. i want him to think positively and not so negatively. what should i do?

ps. i already told him that he is a good person, but he didn't believe me.

thanks!

Ok...I think that sometimes about myself but dont think about other people if he doesn't want to do anything with his life and wants to be a Hobo...let him but i bet you he will think it over.

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okay, last night we went to pick up two new kittens! yeah it was great at first, but now my cat that i've had for two years is growlin' and hissin' and i'm not sure how to help him? What should i do?

Well thats how they are when they first meet..Just let them live for a while and your results will get better...If thay dont Email me.

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lately i've been gaining weight.
last year i was 108 pounds. this year i'm 117. did i gain too much weight? (i play soccer all year long)

also if im 13 and 5`3 and weigh 117 pounds, would you consider me chubby? just tell me the truth and dont judge it on BMI. i don't look chubby but damn, i used to be soo skinny.

what can i do besides running/jogging to lose weight? I want to have a flatter stomach if possible. and what are good foods to eat?

Ok...
Well Maybe its what you eat because...if you excersise good but you eat the wrong things than that is it...I did the same thing...Dont stop excerising but dont excersise too much that you lose it. Good things to eat are like fruit and veg. and Stuff that doesnt have alot of cheese salt sugar and dairy products but remember you are beautiful and never forget that and OH YEAh...if you play soccer that you might have got some muscles and muscles way more than fat.

Hope I helped...
Thank You.

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14/f

Every day for about a week I've had this watery poop that just sort of explodes out when i let it, it's not individual turds, but not really diahhrea-like either. It's like a watery stool. I eat a lots of fruits and vegetables and I drink a ton of liquids. Could that have something to do with it?

I've never had this before, so I need to know what's causing this.

Well not everyone can tell unless you go to the doctor. And maybe its the water...drink some milk but not constantly...:D
Hope I helped.
Get better.

Bye.

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i like a girl and she cant make out good how can i help her out with out herting her feelings?

Ok.
I see. Well first of al if you tell her you have o make her pomise not to get mad...and tell her and then just think if you get t kiss a girl...thats alll you need honeyyy..
But you can ask her to improve it and maybe you'll get lucky.

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what are under skin pimples?
i heard something about a hot rag , does that get rid of acne?

One this is its like a pimple that wont pop so dont mess with it and it will go away...also remember to clean your face everyday and night. One thing is that when you wash your face you rise it off with HOT HOT HOT water and then cold cold water becuase the cold water closes your pores so nothing can get in them.

:D
Hope I helped.

Deena.

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14/f ok im 5'7 and like somewhere between 155-160. yeah i need to lose weight. i have love handles like bad and i need to get rid of them. but i have issues with the whole diets thing. i have noooo dedication its terriable. but its not like im not a phiscally fit person like i play ice hockey , field hocky, softball. i just started kickboxing. likle im not out of shape im just kindof fat. like ahh. tips and help please =]

I like what you said. Ok. You always need to stay fit and exercise but if you thikn that you are never losing wieght then that must mean your not eating the right things. So remember to eat the right thing and not push yourself too hard at excersing. (But do excercise) Nevermind give up because if you do youll be sorry. Just be happy. and Just spread the love.

:D

I hope I helped!

Love, Deena.

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so i hooked up with my friend over the weekend. and now all he wants to do is hook up. and we got in this fight yesterday. i found out today he was like "ef her" and saying all these bad things about me to my friends and trying to get them to be on his side. i want to hook up but after what he said, i don't know if I should. i just want to hook up for fun, nothing serious. what should i do? should i or should i not?

If someones going to say anything like that than whats the point of hooking up. So take this advice and dont hook up with a person who talks about you in a very bad manner.

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i want my eyes to appear larger and really pretty. i have medium brown hair & blue/green eyes. i use eyeliner and eyeshadow and mascara. what colors should i use and how should i apply it to make my eyes stand out and look good? (besides the smokey eye thing)

If you want your eyes to stand out then dont make them to bulky but make sure your eyeshadow isnt a color of WHITE LIGHT LIGHT LIGHT BLUE or BRIGHT BRIGHT BRIGHT colors. More of a calming outstandin goldybrown or maybe a shimmer silver. Mascara is the bomb!! always use mascara because it make your eyelashes stand up and then it makes your eyes stand out. :D

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can someone send me link to get nice myspace layouts?? thanks!!

You can go to www.hotlyts.com
or... www.blinkyou.com
or... www.myspacelayouts.com

:D

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Okay, so theres this guy I like. He's a year older than me. Today we were hanging out in a group and he kept staring at me and every time he did, he smiled. My friend said he was about to ask me out, but im skeptical because she is jealous of me [haha not to sound stuck up]. Should I believe her, or just ask him myself??

I like your question. you shouldnt listen to your friend if you think she is jealous or you MIGHT ruen you relationship. So ask him because its not the end of the world. :D

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Yesterday i tried to curl my hair. It didn't work at first, so i kept the iron on my hair for a kind of long time to try to curl it. Afterward, i noticed my room smelled like i'd burned something, and today someone asked me if i'd burned my hair. I smelled it after that, and it did smell like i burned it. My hair still looks fine, i just can't stand the smell.

Is there anything i can do to make the smell go away? I've already tried shampooing etc

Well. If you shampooed it so many times it should have already gone away. But the smell should eventually go away its not going to stay there forever and remember its not the ned of the world. At least use some perfume to spray on you so that no one will focuse on the burned smell.
Thats all I can say...if I search up any good shampoos or something I will tell you. :D Ok.

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hey read my first question but ignore the bottom.

anyway what should i do about the girl im friends with. i like her but i dont want to destroy our relationship by telling her how i feel.
it feels like every day i dont tell her it further tears my soul.

You shouldnt hurt yourself by telling this girl how you feel becuase your doing the right thing. You only live life once so you should take some chances. :D

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