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"If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." - Romans 12:18

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i REALLY need to go to northcarolina. so how much does a plane ticket cost? from newyork to N.C? also can you go from newyork to northcarolina in bus or train? how much will it cost?
thanks! (link)
try orbitz.com (i belive thats the website)


im 14/f and in the 8th grade
does anyone know any books that have like making out or sex in them without hinting that in the title? thanks soooo much!!
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a list novels.


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okayy sooooo, actually a lot of people say i'm really skinny, not annorexic like disgusting looking, but skinny. and i just don't feel like i am. maybe to other people but i think i give an illusion that i'm skinny... and i'm really not.
sometimes i want to be bullemic but i can't make myself throw up, do you know how to make yourself?
i can't be annorexic. i always eat.. but
how do you make yourself throw up?

i mean i ran track over spring.. and that ended 1 week ago. and this week i started soccer practice.. which is every day. so i mean i do run bbbuuuuuuuuutttt

the major problems i have are my love handles
and the inner thigh area...
anyone have any good exercises i can do to help me lose that little bit extra?
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Do not go bulemia. It will ruin your life and most likly kill you. Making yourself throw up is an awful thing to do to yourself.


ok so i got this abercrombie and fitch kind of jeans vest type thingy (you kow like with the sleeves cut off)
ok anyways i was going to look it up at abercrombie.com for the price but i cant find it

can anyone help?? (link)
try going to abercrombieandfitch.com you might fo gone to the kids site. Last time I was at AF they didnt have those though...Or you could just take it to the store for a price check.


I've seen pictures where it's black and white and has like a spot of color or a little bit of color.
Is it something you can make, like a code or something or photoshop. Or a setting on people's camera? Please tell me. If it is a code, can you tell me it? Thanks. (link)
my friends camera does it. Its like an all black and white picture, then her shirt is bright green. However, if your camera doesnt support that, the idea can be easily achieved in psp or photoshop.


First off before you start reading this , i DON'T want anyone to write me telling me how bad Marijuana is. This is a serious problem to me and by you telling me how much you disagree with weed , is not going to make my situation better.

I've been smoking for about a year and half.
[weed].
I don't smoke cigs though.
When i get done smoking weed , i get really bad pains in the back of my head and sometimes on the top. Sometimes it feels like my brain is jumping up and down inside of my skull. Now i know weed isn't good for your brain and such but are these pains normal? sometimes they really almost make me cry. My brain doesn't always hurt but it's been hurting lately and i was wondering what could be the cause and how to fix it ?

Should i stop smoking for a while ?

thanxxxxxxxxx (link)
Stop smoking. period.
I know you dont wanna hear it, but thats how it will go away.
If it doesnt, could it be brain cancer? I dont know anything about weed or if it can give you cancer though, but i thought id put the idea out....lol


If you're watching your weight, what is the best type of food to get at a pizza place/italian restaurant? Thanks! (link)
get a ceaser salad. or instead of two pieces of pizza, get one.


ok there are these shoes called crocs I think. they are those plastic type shoes that are like 8 dollars at walmart. people have told me they are comfy but i dont see it ... they are hard plastic basically. Are they really comfy? will they help me if im on my feet say, 9 or so hours a day? (link)
heya, i have a pair of crocs myself and they are very comfy. however, you might not like them at all (my best friend despises them) if youre going to be walking a lot (like a hike or something) i do not suggest these shoes as they come off easily, but if youre going to the beach or something, theyre great. The ones at walmart might not be real crocs because real ones are about 30 dollars, so the wal-mart ones might not be as comfy, but hey if you like 'em, get 'em.


Somebody give me tips to lose weight that will I will not turn down. I dont like veggies and working out is a hassel sometimes. I want toi be fit and skinny. I need to lose weight. I am 13/m (link)
read all the stuff below but also cut your portions. give the illusion your eatting more. Instead of eatting two pieces of pizza, cut one piece of pizza in half. Instead of having one big scoop of ice cream, have two little ones.


As a costume for the talent show, me and my friends will be wearing black dresses, black shoes, black hats, and black gloves. Dresses and shoes are easy to find, but we need to find a place where we can get elbow length gloves, and large church hats. If you could list a place, or somewhere online where we can get the gloves for around 10 dollars, and a place where we can get the hats fairly cheap, that would be great. If your not sure what kind of hat im talking about but you think you could help, pictures of the suggested hat would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you! (link)
Try going to a thrift store nearby. If that doesnt work you can always get garden gloves and spray paint them black. If all else fails you can use black tube socks? haha good luck!


Im 13.
I'm the type of girl who is really shy
infront of really any guys but close friends.
I want to get to know some guys, like
become good friends. But im like reeeeeeeally shy.
What to i do. (link)
when you want to meet guys, go someplace with the friends youre most comfortable with, because when youre around friends you will be less nervous (they will back you up, no worries!) Guys love it when you tell jokes and stuff. Im not rly too good on how to become less shy besides that, but Im sure Seventeen magazine or other teen magazines have articles on it, and most likly on there websites too, if you cant get out and buy one!


How do I make my hair grow realllllllly fast?

Besides taking pills.

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I really wanted to grow my hair fast too, so I asked my hair dresser and she said all those shampoos and stuff are scams, the only real way is to brush it out, keep it healthy (by eatting healthy) and wait it out. I was rly mad at first, but patience is a virtue. On average, your hair grows about .5 inch a month, so now you can calculate how long it will take without any enhancments.


I have to make a cd for a class where each song represents something important to me.

I really need help finding good songs.

1. My three best friends, who are like sisters to me. We barely fight, argue a lot, but we all know we'll always be there for eachother when we need. They really have my whole heart and I'd be lost without them.

2. My boyfriend, we've been through a lot of rough times, and a lot of good times. He's basically the only thing that keeps me from breaking down at times. I have a lot of trouble expressing myself to him so i'd like something with a lot of emotion.

thanks! (link)
this is kind of a cool project.
I agree, I think Everytime we Touch is a great song, but it might be a little girly for a guy. Are you splitting up with your friends? lol I know this sounds like a cliche, but if you're graduating maybe Graduation by Vitamin C would be a good track. I'd also add one of your favorite songs. here are a few songs (i just browsed through my itunes library and thought they might help you)
Crazy in Love - Beyonce
Happy Togerher - Lillix/Simple plan
Ill be - Goo goo Dolls (very cute for your guy!)
The young and the hopeless - Good Charlotte
Better Together - Jack Johnson
4EVER - The Veronicas
And put any songs that you have inside jokes about.
Hope I helped!


Yesterday i tried to curl my hair. It didn't work at first, so i kept the iron on my hair for a kind of long time to try to curl it. Afterward, i noticed my room smelled like i'd burned something, and today someone asked me if i'd burned my hair. I smelled it after that, and it did smell like i burned it. My hair still looks fine, i just can't stand the smell.

Is there anything i can do to make the smell go away? I've already tried shampooing etc (link)
I just recently tried curling my hair (disaster!) lol, anyways if youve already shampooed and conditioned it, try spraying some detangler or something in it to rid the smell. As for your room just spray some bath & body works or perfume. If all else fails, the smell will wear out in two or three days.


ok so what do you do when you cant someone out of your head who shouldnt be there in the first place?? (link)
I take my mind off of them. Theres always someone on my mind too. I call up my other friends and talk about random stuff. I read (thats the easiest way for me), or I go onto AIM and talk about something else. If all else fails try watching a movie or eatting. (: At least thats what I do!




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