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summer boy [friends]
Im 13.
I'm the type of girl who is really shy
infront of really any guys but close friends.
I want to get to know some guys, like
become good friends. But im like reeeeeeeally shy.
What to i do.
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when you want to meet guys, go someplace with the friends youre most comfortable with, because when youre around friends you will be less nervous (they will back you up, no worries!) Guys love it when you tell jokes and stuff. Im not rly too good on how to become less shy besides that, but Im sure Seventeen magazine or other teen magazines have articles on it, and most likly on there websites too, if you cant get out and buy one!
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guys will become friends with you if you talk to them and are more louder. guys dont really get along with shy girls theyd think ur just in it for the prize. if you never talk youll probly never make new guy friends. most guys want girls to start. so... just talk to guys try to open up to more people. start a random convo with them. talk about food or something. most guys will get along with girls better then guys most girls will get along better with guys i do. before you do it try to become more confident and louder around strangers. guys (and i) HATE posers dont be one theyd probly tell you to fuck off if you come up acting totally different. and they do dont be so gushy or flirty dont be in it for a relationship dont be a poser dont be too shy dont cry and act for attention. just be yourself but be louder and more confident. i have alot of friends that are girls and guys. just DONT TREAT THEM ANY DIFFERENT THEN GIRLS although no kissy and emotional at the beginning. i might add more later well probly will... so far i got this answer from guys so it should help. and not in a mean way but gay guys are hott and make great friends for most girls who have always had girls as friends their normal and if you are like ooo a gay guy they will probly beat you up bc a guy friend i have is gay and did beat someone up for doing that. none of this is mean its just true. just be normal their not a different species their human
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ok i would just ask them if they have a screen name or something and start out talking to them on there. then when you get a little more comfortable talkin to them then start conversations face to face. just be yourself and im sure you will be fine. :)
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Hey
um...i would say just try to start a convo about something that interests you and you like to talk about, and in doing so you should be more comfortable and less shy and the conversations should progress from there. hope i helped or sparked another thought for you. GREAT LUCK! =)
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Ok this sometimes helps me, picture the guy like your brother. Even act mad if you want to, but you'll see yourself getting less shy around guys. Just remember guys love confidence, and if you can get into the mindset that you are in control then guys will be all over you garenteed. If your still having trouble then just focus on your positives. For example: I like my legs haha. You can make your self feel good and confident by focusing on the things you like about yourself. Then use them to your benifit. Flaut what you've got, it's true. Good luck! :)
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