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Love from afar.
I really like this girl. I talk to her a lot and I know she doesnt like me. I kind of tolds her and then said it was my sister. She is a really nice person and I just want her to like me. Can anyone please help me out. I am 13/m and I want someone to like me. Especially this girl. If anyone is a romantic genius please answer.
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First off, you cannot 'make' someone like you, but you can encourage their feelings a bit. But realistically, I think you are wasting your time on this girl if you already know for sure that she doesn't have feelings for you.
Look yourself in the mirror and say 'it's her loss', because any girl that doesn't realize what a wonderful guy she has right in front of her is absolutely not worth it.
I know it's completely cliche, but this is the truth. If you just be yourself and not act like someone you think some girl wants you to be then you will actually find someone who is perfect for you. Pretending to be into something that you are so NOT into can be pretty exhausting and it won't really be worth it in the long run because the girl will find out you lied and will be angry because she doesn't know the 'real' you.
You should do something with a group of kids around your age that you are really into. That way, you will find a cute girl that you will actually have something in common with so you'll have something to talk about right from the start.
For example, if you like classic cars, go to a car show. If you like to surf or skateboard, go to a local place and go up to a cute girl and ask her a question. "How long have you been boarding/surfing? You can use this technique for practically anything you are into.
I really hope this helps!!
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if you're good looking & she could see you as a possible love interest [ you might need to do some detective work there ] all you have to do is make her laugh. It will set you apart from all the other guys. Make it a really comfortable relationship, talk to her alot, get to know her really well and let her get to know you really well & i'm sure she'll fall for you in no time. Oh and be really nice and understanding, if you're a jerk, then theres very little hope ;)
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If you know she doesn't like you for sure, then why are you still after her. I suggest talking to other girls, getting to know them now so you can broaden your horizons. Don't totally rule out the girl you like a lot, but don't let a crush rule your love life. Go out with someone new and if it doesn't work out, move on.
There are plenty of fishies in the sea =D
hope i helped =^)
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Realistically, you are wasting your time on her when you could be using it wisely with another girl who likes you in return and appreciates you.
You can't just make someone like you if they don't- romantic genius or not. Changing some one's feelings is like trying to change the past.
I know you like her and all, but if she doesn't like you back, like I said, you are wasting your valuable time.
ygs-29/f
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