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is my boyfriend emo
ok. so ive been going out with this guy for like a week know. i liked him for about a month before we went out and yeah. but anyway hes kinda the prep type and i liked him better like that but last night we went to the movies and hung out and all that and he like looked emo in a way. like he was wearing this black shirt with a skull on it and these like black shoes and it was really weird. idk it was kind of a turn off. should i tell him that? or just go along with it? i mean i dont want to sound like someone who judges someone just how they dress but its really unexpected from him and hes not really that type. it doesnt really fit the way he is. what should i do?
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heyy! i dont think your bf is emo. maybe he's just going through a phase. is there a way that you have acted to make him think that you like emo guys?if there is and you KNOW there is then tell him that you liked him the way he WAS and you have to say it very gently, you don't want to hurt his feelings.
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hahaha! i know how you feel, i hate it when your bf has a "wardrobe maufunction" I wouldnt say anything to him that might get him agetated like "you look emo in that, dont wear it" or anything like that, i would say to him "you look soo much more handsome in (name colors or just say lighter colors,) why are you wearing black?" but in kinda a flirty like nice way like you care about him. try not to act like his mom lol
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If you're going to judge him based on what he was wearing instead of how he acts & treats you, then that makes you shallow & you should probably dump him because you don't deserve him.
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Why do you like him?
Do you like him because he's him or not?
He wore a simple shirt and shoes so what? That doesn't defy him. It's his personality and he as a person that shows who he is. Not his clothes. And how do you know what he's like? Maybe he likes those shoes and clothes. Get over it and move on.
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Deal with the fact he wore that. You need to accept it, and go along with it. You're supposed to like him for him, not the way he dresses. Because no offense but that's really really lame. And you were saying that's " not really the type he is " but how do you know that, you don't! You have only been going out for a week, you don't know barely anything about him. Just deal with it. Sorry for the rudeness, but these things upset me.
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