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don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but like someone e
Hiii, I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 3 months, and he's a year older then me, and is a Freshman, so we don't go to the same school. so, i only see him once a week. lately, things have felt weird between us, and i don't really like to talk on the phone to him, and i really like him a lot still, i just know i do. but, i like this one boy thats in my grade. and we flirt a LOT. i feel like i'm hurting my boyfriend, even though NO ONE knows, but me. i don't wanna break up with my boyfriend, but i don't wanna hurt anyone. i don't know what to doo. help?
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Heyy Luv!! i kno wat its like 2 like a bunch of people....im not judging first of all.
okay. Personally, i think youd have a way better relationship with sombody in your grade that you could talk to/hang out with all the time instead of sombdy that you only see once a week! you have to make a decision. either you break up with your bf or you dont. and if you dont, and you want to keep flirting, your gonna have to tell your concience to shut up. flirting is okay. i bet he does the same thing!
but remeber the guy your flirting with, If he hears that you have a bf, he might be hurt. just a concept to thing about!
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If you don't want to hurt your boyfriend, then stop flirting with other guys, weather you are the only one who knows about it or not. If he were to find out, not only would he be hurt, but he'd likely kick you to the curb.
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Explain to your currant boyfriend that you dont think tings are working out and that you both should see other people..
its the nicest way ive ever broken up with someone so i donno even if you like him it isnt far to either of them so..
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If you still like your boyfriend, then stay with him. You've been together for three months, and things are going good, right? If they're not, try fixing it. Call him more, hang out as much as possible & do more things together.
As for this other guy, you might not wanna do anything with him because for one you're taken, and you're happy. But if you don't feel like things between you & your boyfriend are going to get better, then you need to break up with him because staying with him when you don't have feelings for him anymore is not only leading him on, but it's wrong.
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It sounds like you feel like you're neglecting your boyfriend because you can't see him everyday yet you're constantly flirting with this other guy. You probably just feel guilty. Flirting with someone else while you're in a relationship isn't cheating but sometimes it can feel like it is. So call your boyfriend more even if you don't like talking on the phone that much, and try to adjust your schedule to spend more time with him.
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