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crush on friend of a friend
there's this boy i really like. i know for a fact he likes me back; he's a pretty obvious flirt and he always says shit like "im single, do you want to date me now?" and yeah. the problem is that he's good friends with one of my friends. at first i kind of ignored his advances and laughed at him because it was just a little crush and i knew that my friend would be pissed if i dated him. but now i REALLY like him, i mean he really is the sweetest boy i've ever met. i can't get over him. and now i have two problems: 1) i kind of made it seem like i didn't like him when i ignored him flirting with me/i'm pretty sure my friend told him i wasn't interested and 2) my friend would be PISSED. i've seen it happen with all of her friends before. i like him so much and i hate it. what can i do to let this kid know that i'm actually interested without hurting my friend?
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If you really like this guy and you tell your friend this then she should understand. If not then she isn't really that good of a friend, because sometimes you can't control who you like. With this guy you should start flirting back, or just tell him you like him. Tell him the only reason you were ignoring him was because you didn't want to hurt your friend, and you would like to try a relationship with him. Good Luck with your friend, I hope she understands.
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If you like this guy alot, you should let your friend know, she should be understanding and respect that. You're going to like whoever you like, you can't help that. If she gets mad then that's her problem not yours. But if you think that your friendship with her is more important than your feelings for him, than don't say anything. And if you want him to know you're interested, then just flirt with him. It's that simple.
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talk to your friend about it. your friend shouldn`t care who you have relationships with. if she really wants to control that aspect of your life, you`re better off without her. a true friend would be okay with it if you explained that you just can`t get over him.
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