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shes mad at me
i hang out with the "popular" group at school because im really good friends with them and i also have this friend who's not as popular but i still love her. i've heard alot of people saying that shes trying not to be best friends with me anymore just plain friends, because she thinks im always hanging out with my other friends. im friends with my other friends just as much as she ..like i love all of them but i really dont want to lose her as a best friend. what should i do?
16/f by the way.
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You need to have a heart to heart talk with her. These people might have just heard something and completely changed the story around- a rumor. Just confront her. Tell her that you heard that she doesn't want to be as close to you as you were before. Ask her if it's true and why? If it is, let her know that you love all of your friends evenly, it's not like you're chosing a new group of 'more popular' friends over her. Say that you don't want to lose her as a best friend. Just talk it out with her.
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As everyone has said, you need to talk to her rather than go by what others say.
Keep in mind one question: Have you been neglecting to hang out with her in order to give your attention to your popular friends? She may feel left in the dust.
Spend quality time with her, and maybe invite her to join in on activities you do with your other friends to insure she doesn't feel left out.
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Talk to her about it. She hasn't talked to you about it, so you need to be the bigger woman & do that. Ask her why she's doing this & tell her that you don't want to lose her as your best friend. She should understand, and if she doesn't wanna be best friends anymore, but just plain friends, then you need to accept that.
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hey
well this is really up to you. like do you like her enough to continue the relationship?
well if i were you, i would definitely talk to her about it. maybe you can devote more time to her so you dont have to lose her as a friend, or your popular friends.
if you try talking to her, and she doesnt listen, she is probably just jealous & i wouldnt blame her.
and also, what's wrong with just being friends? you guys will probably just hang out less, giving you more time to talk with your other friends. & you'd probably rather be best friends with the popular clique than BEST friends with ONE girl. you know?
so it's really up to you.
make a list of pros & cons in case my suggestions didnt help.
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Dont listen to what you hear, if you're thinking it could be true because she may start acting like it, then confront her about it.
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