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too good to be true
ok so theres this guy in my spanish class thats a year younger than me that i swear is perfect. hes taller than me hes cute hes smart hes funny hes athletic and hes so sweet. thursday after school i was walking in the hallway when he found me and asked me what i was doing over the weekend. i told him i was going to disney world because i was going there with choir and he was like oh yea thats right you told me that. and then we walked outside and both left. when i got home i realised he might have been trying to ask me out. but im not sure. hes really nice and he could have just been making conversation. he sits right infront of me and we talk alot everyday and he will just turn around and stare at me w/ a smirk on his face. i like him alot and i think he likes me too, but im not sure. im never sure! but anyways do yall think he was trying to ask me out and that he likes me? i dont know what to say to him to show him i like him without being just plain obvious. we would be soooo perfect together its crazy. thanks so much!
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I'm pretty sure he was asking you out. Dont worry, if he did like you, he'll probably ask you out again for another weekend. Try and bring it up since you guys talk a lot, or ask him out, but not in an obvious way, you know? Like, ask him what his plans are for next weekend (if you're available) and see if he wants to hang out.
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i think he likes you... if he didnt say anything after he asked you what you were doing like oh thats cool then he was deffinately trying to ask you out i think... just to make sure i would maybe ask him who likes online if he has a s/n or maybe just have one of your friends be like she likes you but if u tell her that i told you i will kill you or something like that so it doesnt look like your just flat out telling him
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It sounds like this guy is obviously interested in you, but your own lack of confidence is getting in the way of you knowing that for sure - and of you pursuing something further with him. Please don't take that as an insult - I used to be the SAME WAY. I'm a natural-born pessimist, so my first thought is usually the same as yours - if things are going really good...its probably too good to be true.
But the signs here seem to be much stronger than your own pessimism...you talk everyday, he's always kind to you, he's always looking at you...seems like he'd like to ask you out but he's not quite sure how to go about things either. Believe it or not - the list of things he likes about you is probably 2x as long as the list of things you like about him! :)
I understand that you want to show him you like him without being completely direct and making yourself vulnerable, so why not just give him some of his own medicine? Talk to him whenever you can, show off that dazzling personality of yours, and make eye contact as much as you can when you're speaking with him. By giving back some of the same signs he's dishing out, you're validating everything he's doing, almost like saying, "I like you and what you're doing - keep it up." And that can build up both his confidence and yours.
Lastly, if you're really interested in going out with him, don't wait it out until the next time he attempts to ask you out. Why not use his own words and ask him what he's doing next weekend? If he's not busy, you can use that as an opener to making plans - seeing a movie or meeting up somewhere. Hopefully, you'll be seeing each other outside of school before you know it - without having to directly say how much you're feeling for him, or just blurting out "will you go out with me??"
Good Luck
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Yeah the dude was definitely trying to ask you on a date. When he said oh yeah I remember you told me about that it was him trying to cover up because he was embarrassed that in a way you rejected him even though you didn't mean to. Chances are he still likes you and he will ask you out again. Best of luck.
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I think he likes you, and was trying to ask you out. He wouldn't ask you what you were doing this weekend for nothing. When you see him at school Monday, ask him if he wants to hang out over the weekend like at the mall or the movies. =) And if he says yes, see how the date goes. If it goes well, go further with the relationship. Good luck!
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yeah omg it totally sounded like he was trying to ask you out. however some of my guyfirends have plainly asked me what i'm doing this weekend and they weren't asking me out (i know for a fact). it could have been either way, hun.
he could definitely like you. a few things: did he look down, maybe a little sad when you told him you were going to disneyworld? or did he maintain eye contact and respond like, " :) ohhh yeahhhh!" cause if it was the first one, he was asking you out. the second one he could have just been hiding his hurt.
maybe next time you see him, just be like, "hey what are you doing this weekend?" if his face lights up and he starts to smile, he definitely likes you. if he just answers the question, he thinks of you as just friends.
look at this website. does he do any of them?
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yeah, he was deff. trying to ask you to hang out. just when next week rolls around, just be like, hey what are you doing this week? we should hang out. i think he likes youu. like deff. ha i'm like that too, i never know when guys like me. like, theyll be tottaly inlove with me, & i'll be like nahh. but, dont make the mistake ive made before, just for next week, just ask him to hang out.
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