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i like this guy at school and we've kind of talked here and there, but i really like him alot but i dont know how he feels about me, should i go and talk to him or be clueless the rest of the year?
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if you like a guy, then you should definently go talk to him, and there's no question about it.
kinda flirt with him so he gets the idea that you like him, but so that you don't come off too strongly.
if he talks to you back, and you end up talking to him a lot, then in like a week or so, tell him how you feel about him.
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First, I believe you need to firmly establish what you want out of this guy. Do you want to like him and have him as yours, or do you want to like him thinking that he's safely and securely out of reach for you, making you safe? Establish what you want out/from this guy in a relationship form friendship, boyfriend, etc. However, from the way you sound, it sounds like you want a relationship with this guy. All I can tell you is that you will really be able to tell HOW MUCH you Really WANT this guy, if you were to tell him your feelings. Also, you'd suprisingly be able to learn a lot about yourself that you never knew yourself. If you're not intending to tell him how you feel, then it's a waste of time and setting yourself up to get hurt. You can never tell if someone likes you or not through casual talk or talk in general, trust me I was in your situation and I confronted my guy thinking his signs were positive,but he just wanted to be friends. Hopefully your charms are more powerful than mine. I still think you should go for it so you really know where you stand. Don't ever let the fear of rejection stop you, you see what you want, go get it, be a go gettah! Hope I was some help.
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well dont rush into asking him how he feels. it might go way too fast.
yes, of course you should talk to him! the more you guys talk the more likely he is to like you. dont be cluless. it's clear when guys dont like you, so dont go for it if you have a hunch.
if you guys are good friends, and he likes you, he may very well ask you out. you can check this out to see if any of them apply:
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if a lot of them apply, i'd just hang out with him for a little bit and just casually ask, "hey, do you like me?" being direct is key. there is no confusion. dont give hints and flirt with him and give him a lot of mixed signals. this could turn him off cause he is unsure whether you like him or not.
whatever you do, DONT TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS, or even one! they act differently around him. they may or may not mean to, but once you blow it, it's done. they will stare at him and get quiet when he's around. and it will be even more akward for him. dont get your friends to ask him if he likes you or something. it's about you and him.
i hope i helped! :]
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It comes down to what you would rather do. Would you rather be clueless and never know, or would you rather take a chance and find out the truth? If I were you, I would opt for taking the chance...
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I think you should drop a few hints that you like him. Smile at him if he looks at you, and just be nice. Don't over-do it though, in case he doesn't have the same feelings back. If flirting with him here and there makes him talk to you more, and he starts to show interest, just keep talking to him. See what happens after that. If he doesn't flirt back when you flirt with him, or answers really simply to your questions, then he probably isn't interested.
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