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people always say im random... i dunno, how do i not be random? i guess its just myself, but sometiemes i say things and my friends are like "that is soo random" and im like.. "how is that really random?" because it was in my head, and when theres nothing to talk about, you bring up a subject! sometimes its kinda annoying.. ugh... so.. well.. how do i stop being so random? how do people become random anyway? answer anything related to this paragraph.
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I'm random too. I say whatever pops into my head. If it's random, oh well. It usually works well for me since I get people laughing. I do/say a lot of things that people would never expect out of me. If it's only annoying sometimes, why change? If being random makes you happy, then stick with it. That's you. Don't change yourself because other people can't handle your outbursts. Just keep being yourself & fuck what people think of you.
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Im exactly the same.And you are you why change yourself for others??Has it ever occured to you that if your friends didnt like your randomness they wouldnt be with you??Being random is perfectly fine and friends love it!!!!!!You go out there and be random - my randomness makes people laugh.And I'm sure you'd know if you were annoying people.The way to stop being random is to Keep Quiet ha!
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It's normal. I'm like that too. And believe me, there are probably people ALOT worse than you when it comes to that. Try to resist urges to scream "Purple Unicorns!" in the middle of conversations. That, would be a little TOO much randomness, even though it's alright sometimes when you're just goofing off with you friends. If your friends really disapprove of you bringing up topics to talk about, ask THEM what they want to talk about. Try saying, "So whats on your mind?" which will give THEM a chance to bring up things that they want to talk about. You can also use transitioning to make it sound less random- like, "Yeah...that reminds me of a time..." You get the point. Just keep trying to be yourself, which is the most important thing. :]
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Chillax. Being random isn't a bad thing. Unless you're talking about some serious subject and then you go to cookies or something.
If there's nothing to talk about, just bring up a topic that seems interesting [it doesn't have to be realted to the previous topic because it's just gonna get dull again]. If they say "That's random" say "I know...at least we have something to talk about."
Or something like that.
When you think something isn't random in your ehad and you say it, other people amy think it's random because they don't know what you're thinking when you're saying. Just explain to them BRIEFLY how you don't think it's random [e.g. Well I was thinking about (the topic) and then that related to this and blah blah]But don't do this too often because it soon gets on people's nerves.
But really, if you're just being yourself you can't change yourself fro being random so hm..all I can say is that people who are random have interesting personalities =]
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I wouldn't stress over it. So you're random, big deal. Obviously that's your personality. Don't change who you are because others think it is odd. That's a part of what makes you a unique individual, and not a mindless robot.
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i get that a lot too. I guess being random is when you say something or make a comment about something irrelevant to the conversation they are having or you are having with them. Thatd be my guess.
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