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should i have sex with him?
13/f
ok so theres this guy that ive been friends with for about 5-6months+! we can tell each other ANYTHING. but anyway...hes the sweetest guy but lately hes been acting a little different. everytime i talk to him it's "ooohh please dont fuck me like u did last night" but hes only kidding bcuz i never had sex. im a virgin. but then he started immitating all the moans and noises i would make if we did have sex...does it sound like he wants to have sex with me? but then the confusing part is he'll turn around and act normal again...off and on. should i be worried about him wanting sex from me? i mean...he just hit puberty so...can't really blame the guy for being curious right?
and i wanna have sex with him...dont get me wrong im not a slut!
...but should i do it?
thanks in advance <3
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Ok, hun, so first of all, every guy is sexually gross like that. ALL THE GUYS. Also, OF COURSE NOT YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM! You`re only 13...ew. Other things you can do that`s not sexual intercourse is become boyfriend and girlfriend and makeout and shit- no fingering or oral or anything. That`s just gross. You may want to have sex with him, as in the urges but don`t. You can have fun by making out and stuff like that.
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Good Luck! And comment me back telling me what happens!
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Do it....if you like him and he likes you do it and see if you like it if not try foreplay like oral sex or fingering...i hope this helps
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You're right - he's 13, he's hit puberty & sexual remarks are gonna be in his vocabulary. His hormones are just raging & sex is gonna be on his mind from this point on. But it doesn't necessarily mean he wants to have sex with you. I don't suggest looking into deep into it because this is typical. & I wouldn't worry about him wanting sex from you unless he actually says it to you directly. But take it from me - you're 13 & you're on a site asking if you should have sex. That right there alone says you are not ready. I'm sure you have been given this speech before, but it's important you wait till you're mature (& 100% positive) enough to make that kind of decision. It's just more enjoyable when you've had time to mature & it's with someone who is not just your friend. It's your decision, but if you give it time before making such a big decision, you'll look back & be SO glad you waited.
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no one can make that decision excpect you but honey your 13 in my opion your still way to young once you loose it your never get it back and if i was you i would wait because there are a lot of complications that happens after sex the relationship changes phycially and mentally i mean im still virgin and im 17 so please dont rush into anything i know people who regret and he sound really immauturre you know so please wait like i said you can never get it back
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I know, I'm only one year older than you, but I definitely do not recommend having sex with him or any guy at your age. Because at this time, as you mentioned about this guy, he hit puberty (just as us girls do, except at a smaller degree.) And that's what happens, but when you get older, you may regret this big time. And I don't know you, but I definitely would hate that for you.
I think you should really think about this, and look at it from a point -- in the long run, what am I going to think? How am I going to feel? More than likely, not very good about this, in my opinion. And I'm sure truly, that you want your first time to be special and with someone you love, right? I don't think this will happen for you, now. And this guy doesn't sound very mature, as most aren't around our ages.
So please, I just ask you to really think about this hard. And understand, that sex really does have consequences, especially, in your situation. You could get pregnant, even if you were to be on birth control and use a condom, there's still that chance of getting pregnant or sexually transmitted diseases, too.
Good luck with everything, and again, I strongly recommend that you do not have sex with this guy, and to think this over.
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hey....he's a guy so alot of whats talking is his hormones..im 19 now and i was that age once...not to offend you..but if you guys were to have sex he wouldnt be interested in you but he would be interested in the sex...i would definately wait on havin sex with him till you know your ready and that you guys are in actual relationship rather then in a casual friendship...i wouldnt worry to much...yes it sounds like he wants to have sex but at that age guys will look at anything decide they want to have sex with it
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I think you ought to talk to him about the remarks he has been making. Ask him why he said it and what did he mean by saying it? Ask him what did he want you to react with? Just confront him on it and demand an answer.
If he's making sexual comments to you and you're not happy with it (or maybe you're okay with it) don't you have a right to ask him why and or to stop it if it's making you feel weird. He probably does have feelings for you or sexual curiosity etc.
Now, you're 13-years-old and I'm not going to preach to you but it's a little young to be having sex. He's just entered puberty and I assume you have too.
At this age making an adult decision that could affect you emotionally and physically for life such as having sex when you aren't really ready is not good. I think you should enjoy the friendship you have and not muck things up with any of this stuff that you aren't ready for and would regret doing now.
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guys always do that. I am also 13/F and all the guys at some point do stuff like that, it is just their hormones. Dont have sex with him you are only 13! He's just saying that as a joke a doubt he actually wants to have sex with you...
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