my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? jcjenniz987 answered Tuesday January 16 2007, 5:09 pm: Hey! I have a friend that feels the same way and on Halloween, they were thing one and thing two and she wanted to be with them also.
OK sorry. I wanted to just tell you... ok now to you. You & your friends are a threesome. Follow these questions to know if they want you really that much and score at the bottom:
1. Does your friends allow you in any group they do anywhere?
2. Do your friends hook up on weekends and leave you out?
3. (LAST ONE) do you get mad at them for leaving you or do they get mad at YOU?
(if the answers are all yes then you have to choose better friends then them)
(if you have 2/3 yes then you hang out with them till they do something to you again like leaving you behind to see a movie)
(if you have 1/3 yes then be friends with them BUT still try and make friends if they leave you hanging or make them jelly{jelous} by getting a friend that is always with you)
hope you follow it!
~*jcjenniz987*~ [ jcjenniz987's advice column | Ask jcjenniz987 A Question ]
Sydnie_I_can_Try answered Sunday January 14 2007, 4:12 pm: If you want in on the jokes then ask them what the joke was about, and yes when there are three bffs that is what normally happens, or it's just ya'll are drifting apart as friends, and it may be time for you to go and look for another group or other people to get close to. Explore your options you never know what you may find.
Thecliquechick answered Sunday January 14 2007, 3:35 pm: You are in the exact same position that I am. This is the hard part, but 1st you have to find out which person is more your friend...... Then get back to me and I will tell you the next, most painful (emotionally) part. [ Thecliquechick's advice column | Ask Thecliquechick A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday January 14 2007, 3:17 pm: I'm sure that everyone feels left out & I do too but you have to talk to your best friends. They might not even realize that they're leaving you out. You should invite them to hang out or maybe if they make plans, ask if you could join. After all, you're best friends. Just tell what you said in your question and talk them about it. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
xOaAlLiIeE answered Sunday January 14 2007, 2:15 pm: Try talking to them together. tell them how you feel because maybe they have a reason that they're doing it.. also instead of waiting for them to ask you to do something, try inviting them over so there's no way you can be left out
soccergurlie1220 answered Sunday January 14 2007, 1:06 pm: Yeah I have the same thing I'm kinda the 3rd person in two groups. But what I do is just ask each one to hang out at my houe or something.
Sometimes I'll say lets all 3 of us hang out but then my 2 friends will go off about something that happened/inside joke and i have no clue. So I like to hang out with then individualy and then when I'm good friends with then seperatly then get the 3 of us together.
xoMASSIEox answered Sunday January 14 2007, 12:06 pm: If they're those kind of friends that are total bitches when they're mad at you, I'd totally say, "If your mad at me because I leave you out sometimes, you should have told me. But if you're not like that then i'm not sure we can be friends." But if you still want to be their friend i'd say something nicer. OR just tell them how you feel. Exactly what you asked! You love to hate me!
-Massie [ xoMASSIEox's advice column | Ask xoMASSIEox A Question ]
kimberlygal answered Sunday January 14 2007, 11:27 am: tell them how you feel
by you not telling them how you feel will make it worse
an this song
dear jamie...sincerely me by hellogoodbye
reminds me of what your going through
listen to it [ kimberlygal's advice column | Ask kimberlygal A Question ]
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