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should i?
i like this boy. and i'm pretty sure that he likes me too. My friends think i should ask him out. But i've never asked out a guy before. And i dont want to ruin our friendship we have now. So should i ask him out? and how?! please help
thankss!
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I think you should find out FOR SURE if he likes you or not. And then, when you know FOR SURE you should ask him out. If you're freindship is as good as you say it is, then not much will change other than the kissing, hand holding, and whatever else. If you do decide to ask him out, do it face to face, DONT get a freind to do it or write him a note or anything. Ask him face to face, and make sure you two are alone, no friends or anyone, that way its more private and you feel more comfortable without the huge mobs of people. Let me know how it works out. Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Make sure that he likes you back before you ask him out. Guys are generally dense most of the time (I should know, lol being one) and need usually obvious hints that you like him. If all else fails, just work muster up and tell him how you feel. The situation about being friends shouldn't be awkward if you reveal how you feel about him. Even if he were to say no, chances are, since you said something, down the road you never know if he'll change his mind. If things feel awkward afterwords, conversate and do the things and you normally do together. Friends shouldn't have to feel awkward because they may reveal deeper feelings to their friend.
Hope this somewhat helps.
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Don`t ask him out until you are positive he has the same feelings too. Try being really good friends and when you feel you`re ready then do it or maybe he will. Don`t ask him out right on the spot just start telling him how you feel and what your feel your relationship is now and that you would like to more than friends. :) ♥
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now i bet alot of people have already said this to you but ill say it too... It is hard the first time you ask a guy out. I would say to him I really like you and maybe you like me too... so i was wondering do you want to go out with me?..That's what most people would do.. but i always make my friends ask the guy for me... its alot easier for me :) Maybe it is for you too :) I hope everything works out and good luck hope i helped :)
AdrianaElizabeth
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i've just gone through this. i like my guy best friend. we've been friends for only about 2 years, but i knew that i really did like him. and i asked him out almost a month ago. he rejected me, though. [[this was my first time asking somebody out]] but it didn't ruin our friendship. we still hang out and talk like before. in my opinion, it made our friendship stronger. if you think your friendship is strong enough, then do it. you'll never know what's gonna happen unless you try.
hope i helped!
if you need anything else, i have AIM, and my s/n is WANNA BE iiN LUV
or you can message me.
i'll be happy to help!
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hmm this is deff a hard thig to do but if u reallllly like him and you are pretty shure he likes you you should just go for it if your not shy you could just out of no where give him a kiss or gentle grab his hand and hold it or you could just make it a point that you too hang out alone alot
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Well i have always been told girls dont ask guys out. But to me its whatever. If you like him enough and you are positive he likes you back then go for it.:] So yess you should. You could ask him in school [in person] or if your shy like me you could write him a note. or even over the phone.If you talk on the internet thats a good way too. Hope i helped and hope it works out. but if he says no[ i dont think he will] i know its gonna be hard but just say ok well friends then? and act like your okay with it even if you want to break down and cry.
:] again i hope everything works out.
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oh wow you sound like me =]
maybe have a friend ask what he thinks of you.
possibly a guy friend of yours?
have him bring it up with this guys, like
'what do you think of so&so like her?'
or something along those lines.
if the guys says yes, then ask him out =D
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Before you ask him out, make sure you know if he has the same feelings towards you then you do towards him. I know if you asked him out & he said no, you'd be crushed so just talk to him about the relationship you have and just give him hints that you want to ask him out and maybe he'd get it.
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guys are usually pretty good about staying friends if it goes wrong. if he doesnt like you, and it ruins the friendship, it will be because you are uncomfortable around him. i say go for it though, because in general, if it seems like a guy likes you, he probably does.
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Yes, write him a note and say, "*Name*, will you go out with me?"
Everyone else is just jealous of my effort that I put into answering this.
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