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15 and feel like a slut
i really like this guy but he is 19 and im 15 he really likes me too and i know that im young but i really have never felt like this in my life and i feel soo comfortable with him he makes me laugh and gives me hope in life like no other could i reall would like to call this love but im just not sure anyways to the part about the whole sex thing i have had sex with him 2 times sine we have been together im on birth control and we use condoms am i a slut or a whore for having sex at so young of an age and i dont regret doing it either because it feels soo right with him please answer my questions i just need to know :/
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No it does not make you a slut. You are only sleeping with him so you aren't a slut. If you were having sex with people for the fun of it you would be a slut, but no it's perfectly fine. I think if you love this person then it's a good way to show your affection as long as you are ready for it. Just make sure that you are safe!!!
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In many peoples opinion, you're a slut, for sleeping with a man whos 19, which now that your 15, is illegal, so people wont like that. Good thing tho is that you're using protection, you're sleeping with only him (i hope)and that you dont regret doing it now. Those 3 things are the most important part, so what other people think about it doesnt, or shouldnt matter. It only matters if you really think your a slut or not
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Others may think so if they hear about it, but no you're not a slut in any way. However, what you are doing might not be a very good idea. Maybe you feel all those wonderful feelings for him, but he doesn't necessarily feel the same about you. The age difference makes the chances of this higher. It's very unhealthy to love someone as much as that and share physical intimacy when they do not feel the same way about you, especially at a young age. It's hard to separate lust from love. You could just be being used and that is an awful experience.
There's always a possibility that he really does have feelings for you of course. Ask him. Remember that sometimes people lie. Don't let love make you blind. If he says he does tell him he needs to prove it. You don't have to be mean about it, try to make it cute. If he's just in it for the sex, he'll sweet talk the crap out of you. Don't fall for it. See through to the real him. As amazing as he might appear, it's what's on the inside that matters. Try to look past your strong feelings for him for a minute and make sure that he's good on the inside too.
It's very good that you are using birth control and condoms, way to go. You seem really smart and responsible, so I'm sure you'll be able to make the right decision. Good luck. :)
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While I'm glad that you are using procautions like birth control and condoms - they are not always preventive towards pregancy or STDs.
Until your are physically, emotionally and finanically able to take care of a baby or understand which STDs are availible, I would hold off.
No, 15 is not an young age and that fact that you are taking precautions shows that your are being responsible.
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hey, your not a slut at all. if you feel that its the right time for you to start having sex then im sure it is. just amke sure that hes not pressuring you into doing it.
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hun you are not a slut ..i go out with a 17 year old and i am 14 ..you shouldnt worry your not a slut and if you think he is the right one then he is becuase no one else could tell you who is the right one for you.except you
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Good Luck!!!
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no, you're not a slut. you're really into this guy and he's really into you and it feels right and you guys can trust eachother so it actually sounds like a pretty good relationship. And the age thing doesn't mean much in these situations. I mean hell, im 14 and my boyfriend is 19 too and we love eachother so it's nothing to worry about dear. Hope everything works out <3
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Alright if you love him and you know that he loves you back.
It's perfectly fine.
But you can't keep it a secret.
You should tell your parents so they know what's going on.
And the sex thing, if you know you both don't have diseases and you both use protection then you're alright.
Don't let anything get in the way if you know that you love each other.
You're not a slut for having sex at that age, I know some people who have had sex at 12 or 13 and they weren't even in love.
But don't make this relationship a secret otherwise it's just gonna get screwed up, so be sure to tell your family and is.
I hope I helped.
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