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not even one guy
My first boyfriend and I recently broke up. It's weird being single but I'm moving on. The problem is, there are absolutely no guys that I like. I'm in my senior year of highschool, have a job, lots of single friends and no guys have caught my eye! I know I should focus on me and be independent, but I'm used to being interested in many guys. How can I meet new guys and where? Should I even be looking for someone right now, or let someone find me?
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Do yourself a huge favor and spend all that free time reading as many books and listening to as many audio books as you can on becoming financialy literate. You are almost out of highschool. You have a job so you know what it is like to work for your money. Learn how to make your money work for you before you take on any relationships.
Most americans think that their house is an asset. The are misled. They think that the car is an asset too. The truth of it is this. Most americans are in debt because they spend all their money on liabilities (ANything that takes money out of your pocket) Instead of spending money on Assets (Anything that puts money in your pocket)
In other words my business brings me money, therefore it is an asset. My house takes money from my account, there for it is a liability.
Take care of yourself first. everything else will just happen!!
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Let a guy find you. you should be confident enough that you can be amazingly hot without a guy! that kind of an attitude attracts guys and makes them want you, and especially makes them want to catch you! and that is SO much more fun than being the desperate single girl who needs a guy to reassure herself. you're not single: you're LOOKING.
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Dear Not Even One Guy,
Keep in mind, it is important for a person to feel comfortable being on their own without having the distraction of a relationship. It is important to establish good friendships and you can gan a lot of wisdom by doing just that. You will have plenty of time in your life for getting serious in relationships, but it is important to enjoy the discovery of you. You are starting a new phase of your life...embrace everything that is has to offer you, that includes breathing room.
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You should just hang around guys that you class as friends because maybe in time they will become something much much more or maybe you should just let someone find you for a change because from where i'm sitting it looks like you have to do all the work.
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Find a guy who is more of a fiend then boyfriend. learn how to be friend with a man. this will teach you how important you are. and that relationship will last longer. Maybe it would be easier to find guy friends in your area.
This will also free you up to have fun your senior year! The more you figure out who you are the more attractive you will be come to decent guys in the future.
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i think you should just focus on yourself and hang out with friends all the time. thats probably the best way to go and if someone finds you or you find them on the way then kool! just go with it
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