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About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks. (link)
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I, as well as many other girls, can completely relate to your situation. I went through a very similar thing over the summer, and I was heartbroken when he broke up with me. Eventually, after going through a little too much dark chocolate and pep talks from my friends, I realized that I was above all that. Why pine over a stupid boy? We should be fine as we are without a boyfriend in our life! Many girls see themselves as "incomplete" (or something similar to it) without a boyfriend or a boy in their life. They give their boyfriends a bit of themselves in the relationship, and when it's over, they feel as though they've lost a part of themselves in the process. What you need to do is think of yourself as a whole person - all by yourself: 100% without a boy. You've got amazing friends, looks, brains, a sense of humor.. just think about it! Why would you even need a boy? Remind yourself of the positives in your life, and you'll forget all about boys. Fill up your schedule with parties, events, and school, and surround yourself with people and activities you love until it's brimming with things to do and people to see. Pour yourself into school! Read a great book! Find a sport you love! Join a club! Host a party! Volunteer at your church, temple, or an animal shelter! Find lots of things to do to make your life productive and fun. Before you know it, your planner will be full, your grades will be up, and you'll forget all about him. Then you can go on from there more satisfied and confident with yourself.
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Okay so im going to the mall with my boyfriend this weekend..okay yea im 14 just so you kno..but anyway i hate pda i think it looks really bad and i hate making out or even kissing in public but i think it would be really cute if like we made out in the hollister dressing room or something hehehe. but i dont kno im not sure how to like work it out like what do i say or do to get in the dressing room with him..i know sounds pretty stupid but i think it would be kind of cute..so yea any ideas?
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Just do it! Be cute- be like "have you ever hooked up in a dressing room?" and go for it. lol it soudns like fun- elevators are smf too. :) have funn
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ok well i dont know if this is the rite topic..but..my friend*Whitney* has been going out with this guy*kevin*. She is in 8th grade and he is in 9th. well wen he first asked her out about a month ago she asked me what i thought..i told her that it wasnt a good idea because all he wants to do it "get down her pants". i know that from other people going out with him. She told me in the begnining of there relationship that she promised she wouldnt do anything. well they were at a football game (high school) and he tried to finger her. she told him not rite now. and i respect that brcause she didnt do it. well a couple days ago she was at his house and he figered her..she said it hurt really bad and she was scared to tell me because she knew i would get really mad. well of course i was and i tried to let it go but this guy is knows for doing really bad stuff. im really worried about her. she has it in her mind that she loves him but i know she doesnt and im scared he going to pressure her into doing something she doesnt want to do. i dont know how to come about this..or how i can look out for her because i kno anything i say wont matter..shes moving way to quickly with this relationship. i need help..thanks in advance (link)
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Let her know what you think. She deserves to know the truth, and if she's a true friend, she'll understand and try to take your advice. Stand by her no matter what she does. Everyone makes mistakes, and if she doesn't take your advice, she'll regret it later, and you'll be there to comfort her.
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Theres this guy i like and hes pretty much like a jock cause he does lacrosse and football. and i do soccer, bball, dance, and I wanna try out lacrosse in the spring. hes in like most of my classes in my middle school, and i fell for him right when i met him.. cause of his looks, but hes also funny and nice, too. (although hes not the brightest crayon in the box heh) ANYWAY, im not the world's best flirter, especially with guys i like alot, cause then i feel awkward around them and such. but i dont mind in gym getting competitive, like we played this game called "steal the rings" and you gotta capture the person's flag on their belt so they dont steal your ring. and i beat him sometimes and hes always smiling when i do it. also the other guys, like they know im good at the game but like is it attractive? or does it kinda repel people. im not like "SOOO" aggressive, but im pretty good at the game and dont just stand there like some girls doo. hes kinda popular and im not popular, but not a loser either.
ppl kno me cause im smart, talented at stuff, funny, and nice. but sometimes it takes a bit to get to know me, since at first i may seem shy but if i get comfortable around you i can be totally more outgoing and fun to be around. arg, so im basically shy in most places except gym cause i dunno.. i guess i feel kinda selfconcious, well i mean i like myself, but it feels weird when ppl are like staring at you! so i always get some feeling which makes me feel weird like that sometimes, though i guess its just nervousness for no reason when im feeling kinda uncomfortable. but this kinda happens everyday and every night i tell myself that i will change and such but its always the same the next day! i mean it changes a lil.. but like.. yeah. how do i become more outgoing and stuff.. and basically make more friends in general? and how do i be myself.. like everyone says that as the answers to questions like this (sorry this is not all on the topic!) and its like hard..
Ahh! sorry this is mucho long!
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i'd say, think like bridget in the sisterhood of the traveling pants. be flirty and daring- when you grab the ring, don't just be like competitive- make sure he sees you, smile and make eye contact. be daring and don't be afraid to have fun- pretend he already wants you and you're the shit, cause if you act like it, it'll happen. good luck!
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How do you ask out guys if you are a shy person??? (link)
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Pretend you're someone else that you admire or want to emulate instead of yourself. I get shy sometimes too, but I pretend I'm someone gorgeous and confident. Think of people you admire, like a favorite celebrity or one of the popular or hot girls in school who boys like. Just try to put yourself out there, and be really casual about it, then see what happens! Good luck!
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okay well me and one of my friends just recently got into a fight about a bunch of stuff.. well me and her have tried to talk about it but when i try to talk to her, this other girl ALWAYS gets into the middle of the conversation and ruins me and her tryin to ptch things up, and THAT is part of the problem. well, the rest of the problems are that she is going out with my ex boyfriend, she swears that every guy likes her , and for that she thinks that she is better than everyone else, ((but what she doesnt know is that they all talk shit about her behind her back)), and, she swears to god that this girl (no name) is her BEST FRIEND but yet ive been there through EVERYTHING (like when she was kicked out, i was there, and when she has problems, im there etc)and now, she doesnt realize it, but she has lost ALL of her friends for being such a bitch and thinking that she is better.. how do i get her to listen to me so that we can solve our problems??? (link)
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first, realize that you're above that stupid drama. don't let her-or anyone!- get to you and once you figure that out, you can talk to her. talk to her in person- if you do it online (NO!) everyone could see what you were saying with the click of a button and it wouldn't be as personal. you also don't know who you would be talking to! the phone is a little better, but you still can't tell about conference calls, speaker phone, etc. talk to her in person- first of all, that would intimidate her and make her listen and realize that you mean BUSINESS. then you can just tell her how you feel- if you really care about your friendship, you should let her know exactly what's up- slightly brutal, maybe, but don't make it like it's brutal or like it's sugarcoated. try to solve it and be productive, and work together to stop the problems. if she doesn't listen, whatever, screw her, and get on with your life. you have friends and if she doesn't listen, that's her own fault.
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out of chi sedu and solia which hair straightener is the best? I currently have a straightener i love but i want one that will make my hair even straighter and not damage it as much. also for how much i am paying i want one that will last me atleast a year (link)
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the chi is amazing!!
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My first boyfriend and I recently broke up. It's weird being single but I'm moving on. The problem is, there are absolutely no guys that I like. I'm in my senior year of highschool, have a job, lots of single friends and no guys have caught my eye! I know I should focus on me and be independent, but I'm used to being interested in many guys. How can I meet new guys and where? Should I even be looking for someone right now, or let someone find me? (link)
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Let a guy find you. you should be confident enough that you can be amazingly hot without a guy! that kind of an attitude attracts guys and makes them want you, and especially makes them want to catch you! and that is SO much more fun than being the desperate single girl who needs a guy to reassure herself. you're not single: you're LOOKING.
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yesterday my boyfriend of about 4 months told me this girl who hes been friends with for about 3 years randomly called him and asked him if he wanted to hang out tomorrow. he told her that hes workin because he works almost everyday and when he doesnt hes with me. hes not the kind to hang out with friends outside of school anyway, except me [but we go to diff. schools]. should i be worried? im pretty sure he wouldnt cheat on me bc were very open and honest about that but im already kind of a jealous person bc im always scared hes gonna end up likin another girl and leave me for her. but he promises he wouldnt. but anyway thats beside the point. does it sound like i should be worried about her? i dont know who she is and im not really worried about him likin her im worried about her likin him.
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DON'T WORRY AND DON'T BE JEALOUS. you're only 16 and life is supposed to be fun. if he really likes you and you really like him you should be confident enough that you'll know that he'll always come back to you. even if you are worried, pretend you're the shit and you know everyone always comes back to you. DUH. get what i'm saying? and if he's a stupid asshole, whatever, screw him, and get on with your life- you're hot enough that you don't need a guy to be cool.
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Hello!
Ok, so our school's homecoming is this Saturday, and i don't know what to do with my hair. My hair is about an inch past my shoulders, blonde with red/blonde highlights, side bangs that go to the left. My dress is a halter if that helps. Does anyone have any ideas?
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i'd say, straighten it and make it sleek and shiny. if it's a party, that would look really sexy and you'd definitely look seductive and fun at the same time.
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ive never kissed a guy b4 but i want to..how without making a fool of myself? (link)
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well, you should definitely wait for the right moment and guy for it. don't randomly kiss him or anything. you really want something that you can look back on and not be disappointed. don't rush into it: the time will come. just have fun: that's how it should be. when you find the right guy and stuff, you shouldn't HAVE to think about it.
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