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its about to be a ... GIRLFIGHT
okay well me and one of my friends just recently got into a fight about a bunch of stuff.. well me and her have tried to talk about it but when i try to talk to her, this other girl ALWAYS gets into the middle of the conversation and ruins me and her tryin to ptch things up, and THAT is part of the problem. well, the rest of the problems are that she is going out with my ex boyfriend, she swears that every guy likes her , and for that she thinks that she is better than everyone else, ((but what she doesnt know is that they all talk shit about her behind her back)), and, she swears to god that this girl (no name) is her BEST FRIEND but yet ive been there through EVERYTHING (like when she was kicked out, i was there, and when she has problems, im there etc)and now, she doesnt realize it, but she has lost ALL of her friends for being such a bitch and thinking that she is better.. how do i get her to listen to me so that we can solve our problems???
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first, realize that you're above that stupid drama. don't let her-or anyone!- get to you and once you figure that out, you can talk to her. talk to her in person- if you do it online (NO!) everyone could see what you were saying with the click of a button and it wouldn't be as personal. you also don't know who you would be talking to! the phone is a little better, but you still can't tell about conference calls, speaker phone, etc. talk to her in person- first of all, that would intimidate her and make her listen and realize that you mean BUSINESS. then you can just tell her how you feel- if you really care about your friendship, you should let her know exactly what's up- slightly brutal, maybe, but don't make it like it's brutal or like it's sugarcoated. try to solve it and be productive, and work together to stop the problems. if she doesn't listen, whatever, screw her, and get on with your life. you have friends and if she doesn't listen, that's her own fault.
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try talking to her on the phone, that way the one girl who butts in the conversation can't get into it this time. tell her you miss being her friend and you wanna work things out. if she refuses to be your friend give it some time and try again but if she is still mad at you then i dont really think she deserves to be your friend. good luck, hope it helps
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