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wasnt sure what catagory really.
About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
1st of all, its ok to be upset about breaking up with someone...that's part of life i guess...
anyway, I recommend having a night dedicated to YOU. Do something fun; read a book; go to the movies with your friends; watch a movie; cook something---anything that makes you feel happy. If you still feel sad about everything, take a piece of paper and a pencil/pen, and list all of the things you like about yourself. Then go outside and SHOUT (yes, I said SHOUT) out everything that you wrote on that list.
However, dont worry about him. There are plenty of other guys out there.... but you just need to give it some time.
Hope I helped!!
*~*Emily
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I, as well as many other girls, can completely relate to your situation. I went through a very similar thing over the summer, and I was heartbroken when he broke up with me. Eventually, after going through a little too much dark chocolate and pep talks from my friends, I realized that I was above all that. Why pine over a stupid boy? We should be fine as we are without a boyfriend in our life! Many girls see themselves as "incomplete" (or something similar to it) without a boyfriend or a boy in their life. They give their boyfriends a bit of themselves in the relationship, and when it's over, they feel as though they've lost a part of themselves in the process. What you need to do is think of yourself as a whole person - all by yourself: 100% without a boy. You've got amazing friends, looks, brains, a sense of humor.. just think about it! Why would you even need a boy? Remind yourself of the positives in your life, and you'll forget all about boys. Fill up your schedule with parties, events, and school, and surround yourself with people and activities you love until it's brimming with things to do and people to see. Pour yourself into school! Read a great book! Find a sport you love! Join a club! Host a party! Volunteer at your church, temple, or an animal shelter! Find lots of things to do to make your life productive and fun. Before you know it, your planner will be full, your grades will be up, and you'll forget all about him. Then you can go on from there more satisfied and confident with yourself.
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Join a sport or a club. Focusing on something else takes it off your mind so it's easier.
But this is my famous answer: time heals everything.
♥T!NA
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There are three main things that can help you get over him.
#1 Come to appreciate the fact that at least you found out. Many guys cheat on their girlfriends and they never know that the guy they are with doesn't feel the same way about them. Now you are able to look at things in a realistic mannar, which is better than a fictional romance.
#2 Give yourself time. As long as you try to move on, your life will continue to improve.
#3 Distract yourself by involving yourself in extracarricular activities. You need to focus on something becides other people.
Good luck, and you can always talk to me if when you start feeling blue :)
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