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my nephew constontally hists his sister what should I do?
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the first time he does it say that is not ok, and if he does it another time he will be punished.
if he does it a second time: put him in an uncomfortable chair in a corner so that hes facing it for 5 min. tell him if he hits his sister again he'll have to sit for 10 min.
keep increasing the time by 5 minutes each time he hits her. keep an eye on him so that he doesn't get up.
hope this helps!
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first put him in time out and if that doesn't work then give him a LONG, boring lecture about why that is bad and if he continues to show him scary movies about abuse and why he shouldn't do it...it'll scare him so much
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hit him. dont beat him or anything, but a harmless spanking will teach him that his actions have consiquences. as a kid the threat of a time out never did discouage me from doing somthing bad. a half hour standing in the corner is no where near as good a deterant as a swift hand on your behind, and three or four minutes of that stinging sensation.
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It depends on his age
the best thing to do is time out.. but don't sent him to his room (the girl before me said this) because your room is supose to be your safe haven not a place to get punished AND play.
Usually making him sit in a chair or a step for every minute for as old as he is (ex if hes 3 make him sit there for 3 mins) and keep doing it until he behaves and if he gets up start over
I learned that on super nanny and it works perfectly for them
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You need to give him a time out of what he's doing. But the way that you do it may very depending on how your aunt disiplines him. (e.g. time out, go to his room, etc) The reason that time outs work is because it helps the child cool off, and realize that what they are doing is wrong. but if you let it keep happening, then he will eventually think that you cant disipline him, because you aren't his mom, but you are the one in charge and he has to know that you're the boss.
Don't worry about his mom getting upset about you disiplining him. Just dont hit him or act physically or anything. and you should be good to go. I hope I helped. Just remember. stay consistant, and also, he's just a little kid, he may say he hates you, but he doesn't. Good luck!
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If you are baby sitting then ask your aunt how she would suggest you handle the situation. That way you don't get into trouble.
If you just always notice it happening then still tell your aunt about it and let her handle it. :)
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