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My Friend Might Be Lying
One of my best friend's came to me and another friend (also both bi) and told us he was bi and he was serosuis. Now fast forward a couple weeks, he says to me he's complety straight and would never do another guy, now i think he's lying whatta do ya think?
btw were all 14
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14 year old's cannot be bi, they're too stupid to know what a fake sexual preference is.
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I don't think he's lying, he's probably just a bit confused. He may have these feelings, but he wants to deny them. It may also have been a brief urge that passed. Sexuality is not always something that people can figure out about themselves right away.
Let him figure it out on his own, and offer support if he asks for it, but I wouldn't bring it up again unless he wants to talk about it.
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Well If You Think Bout It He May Just Be Embarassed Cus @ The Age 14 Theres Alot Goin Through Your Mind Especially Worrien About What Other People Think About You! Then Again He Could Also Be Really Confused Cus Yuns Are Just Startin High School & All That Cus Your 1st Year Of High School Can Be Really Stressful And Confusen!...
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Now, I don't know if you're bisexual also, but if you are and some of your friends are, he just might've been trying to blend in with you guys. You guys are 14, and that's whenever everyone tries to find themselves and blend in with people to fit in properly, so he could've told a lie. Or he just might've been bi-curious, and realized he wasn't really feeling other guys that way, and that's that.
I would talk to him about it and just ask him if he's really serious about being straight or not, or if he really is bisexual, and why would he go and tell everyone he's straight after saying that? And just let him know it's alright to talk to you about it, you won't say anything to anybody if he doesn't want them knowing anything. Talking to him about it is the only true way to find things out, and get the record straight.
I hope I helped.
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Are you Bisexual? If not, he might be simply trying to fit in with you and your friends when he isn't actually Bi. You know, when he is around your friends he says he is, when around just you he says he isn't...
Now if you are Bi as well, it could be he is confused. Being that you are all only 14 (cripes), I'd say this is pretty likely actually. Many of my gay/bi friends took years and years to come to grips with their sexuality, and a couple are still switching back and forth (I'm Gay! Wait, I'm Bi! No I'm Gay! Now, I'm Bi again!). He could be confused and just be trying to figure it out for himself /shrug.
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Maybe he was bi-curious? He could have been lying tho ♥
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I think it shouldn't matter. :)
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