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in pain 2 days


Question Posted Thursday September 28 2006, 12:58 am

my boyfriend and i had sex on monday night and it didnt hurt when we were doing it but that morning when i went to use the restroom and peed it really hurt it was a burning feeling and when i was peeing i got up and it still kept feeling weird like it was hurting down there. i can't explain the feeling its like i have to go pee but when i do go sit on the toilet i dont have to go its like a feeling i have to go it hurts to down there. today is wednesday and it still keeps hurting. i don't know what is wrong with me i mean what is wrong with me will this every go away because its been two days and its making me cry. someone please help me give me some answers. i have made a doctors appoitment but i have to wait until october 13. to go and that is like two weeks away and i cant not wait that long. someone please help me! Thanks in advance!!!

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Luyah answered Friday October 13 2006, 9:01 pm:
Most likely a mild urinary tract infection.

your bf, and yourself or whoever else touches you 'there' needs to wash his hands and his 'parts' before making love. lotsa little bacterias build up and create the problem you describe.

women can get seemingly chronic and repeated irritations from neglecting to require their partners to wash first. the guys especially can take some convincing to take this little break from the act once things have started to get passionate.

A shared shower beforehand solves the problem wonderfully.


lots of water, cranberry juice. (try to get the juice or a juice blend, it's better than cranberry cocktail because there's sugar in the cocktail) if it hurts even if you're screaming and crying from the pain when you pee, drink even more!!! the pee will wash out the infection and it'll start getting better soon!

(if you hold off on fluids, you can get dehydrated and the infection because it's not getting washed downwards can spread up into your bladder and kidneys, and that is nooott a good thing - i know someone who ended up in the hospital with this - it's muuuch cheaper and healthier to drink lots of water and juice at the first sign of any pain or irritation)

trader joe's and health food stores may have a tablet form cranberry extract supplement that's cheaper and more storable than juice that you can keep on hand to take if there's ever a recurrance

hope it's gotten better!

luyah

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Melody answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 12:29 pm:
it sounds like a yeast infection. if you can't wait until the doctors appointment, go by an over-the-counter medicince for the infection. then go to the doctor and be sure to tell them everything. [including the medicine]

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nikia answered Tuesday October 3 2006, 11:29 pm:
well you probably just have some kind of minor infection. It could be from almost anything like not drinking enought water or something. if yall used a condom it could be an irretation from the condom but i dought that its serious. you need to go to your Gynecologic(i think thats how you spell it) not just to a regular doctor. try to call another place and see if a gynecologic can fit u in sooner! :-)

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littleblufirefly answered Thursday September 28 2006, 6:47 pm:
That definitely sounds like a urinary tract infection. Just so you know that's not an STD and it can be treated. Drink lots of water and cranberry juice. You should also avoid baths and washing with scented soaps. I suggest you go to a pharmacy and tell them your symptoms and see if they can suggest something you could take over-the-counter to help. There are herbal supplements that help with urinary tract infections. It will eventually get better, but it will come back if it's not treated. You need to keep your appointment even if it starts to feel better. There is something you can get from the pharmacy that tells you if you have a bacteria infection or if it's something else (you pee on a stick, similar to a pregnancy test). I'm not sure what it's called, but call or go to your pharmacy. You should make an appointment to see a gynecologist to get checked out. They can also put you on the pill while you're their (if you're not already). Make sure that you are both very clean before you have sex, and use protection because urinary tract infections are contagious (he can catch it from you and you can spread it back and forth). I hope this helps and good luck! <3 Dana

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BitsandPieces answered Thursday September 28 2006, 4:35 pm:
You could have an infection that needs immediate attention and you do not have to wait. Walk in to any urgent care or planned parenthood or other free clinic and get checked out. It sounds like a bladder infection, but I am not a doctor. If you start peeing blood that is a sign of a bad bladder infection. You deserve to get help, so find a way to get it today.

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netsirk07 answered Thursday September 28 2006, 1:53 pm:
I know exactly what it is. Its a UTI (Urinary Tract infection), this happens when you dont urine after you have sex. Also it could happen by getting Ecoli in your urinary area. So go to the doctor and get him to prescribe an antibiotic. and in about 2-5 days it will be pretty much cured.

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NinjaNeer answered Thursday September 28 2006, 12:49 pm:
It could be a urinary tract infection, caused by irritation due to friction. It's happened to me before, and I know it sucks! Do you have a walk-in clinic nearby? You have to get on antibiotics as soon as possible, and a walk-in will be as fast as it gets.

Other than that, try drinking lots of cranberry juice... it's supposed to have antibacterial properties. Drink lots of water, too.

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PhoebeNo2 answered Thursday September 28 2006, 7:32 am:
I have had the same problem before and i was really worried i had caught something but turns out it was a urinary tract infection. This can be sexually transmitted but it will go away after a course of antibiotics.
You will have to tell your boyfriend about this as he might need treatment too.
I have found a website for you to look at it will give you some answers.
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Hopefully this helps in some way.
dont worry hun and please let me know if it all goes okay for you x

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