Question Posted Wednesday September 27 2006, 6:32 pm
13/f
My uncle had aid's, he was gay. he died before i was born. I had sex with this guy about 3 weeks ago. he used a condom. but then like 2 weeks ago we were in my bed and he was fingering me but then i think he might have put soemthing in there that wasnt his fingers (his dick) i am not sure though but as soon as i felt it i was afraid so i made him take it out and he said "what baby i was just fingering you" so i dont know but could i have std's or could i have given him std's?
Elcee answered Thursday September 28 2006, 5:21 am: It is not a good idea to mess around with your health. Although he said he was only fingering you, I too would be doubtful if I thought it was something else.
To put your mind at rest, please go to the doctors or Planned Pregnancy where they will be able to help you with this. Your parents will not be told if you can't face telling them. Never let a guy have sex with you without using a condom. That way you will be reassured that you are protecting yourself against STDs and pregnancy.
At 13 too, you are still far too young to be having a sexual relationship. It is against the law and the guy could end up being prosecuted. You need to have more respect for yourself and say no to any sexual advances. I wish you all the best and hope that it all works out okay for you. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
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