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Should we stay friends?
I was talking to my best friend on the phone yesterday. (She's a girl, im a guy.) And she said she liked me. I like her too, and I told her that. It should be easy to figure what to do next but it's not. We want to be more then friends but were afraid of ruining our friendship if something happens. Also, she is afraid it would be too weird but I don't think it would. So I guess Im asking, should I ask her out? Or should we just stay friends even though we want to be more, just so it won't be weird?
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If you both like each other. go for it. ask her out. and just promise each other if things dont work out as a couple, to still be best friends. you'll never know if it will work out if you never try. good luck.
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Relationships are never wierd. And is if you like this girl then you should give it a try. If it doesn't work out then you can still be friends. But I don't know how old you are but if you get too into her try to just rub her upper leg or give her a kiss. Don't start grabbing stuff that is private to her. Unless you are older then you can grab a boob if it's ok with her.
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I think you should at least give it a shot, so you at least know what would happen. I mean, what if you two never went out and it could have been completely normal and great? If you both find it weird to be dating in the beginning, you can always just remain friends, and there wouldn't be too much emotional attachment cause you wouldn't have been dating for like, a year or anything. If you two were to break up, it might be a little strange at first just remaining friends, but after awhile it gets normal again and like it never happened. [ I know from experience ]. I hope I helped.
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i was in the same situation once, but i'm a girl. friendships usually feel really akward if you were dating. dont ask her out. be friends with benefits.
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if u like her, ask her out. her feelings would probably be hurt if you didnt and that is as likely to ruin a friendship as a relationship is.
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i would i trie it i mean ya it is going to be weird but i am sure it probanly wont be a bad weird.Tell her that your guy's friendship will always be in tact because it is a true friendship and true friendships can never be broken.If you two dateing doesnt work out then just stay friends at first it will be very wierd but eventaully it will be back to normal as if you guys never dated.I think though that before you ask her out you need to talk to her some more put her feelings at ease.make this easy for both of you take it slow dont rush and make sure to follow how you feel all the time remember that w hen you guys do date you guys are still friends aswell so dont treat her differently besides more attention and stuff.If you need anything just ask
~nikki~
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If you just stay friends it'll still be weird because you both know you like eachother. And plus she'll start thinking that you didn't like her all that much in the first place. So yes ask her out. Besides there's no reason not to go out, I mean you both like eachother.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~`
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i see it as more of a mutual decision. i wouldnt go all out and ask her out. it sounds to me like the two of you care alot about each other- which is a HUGE plus in any relationship. i think you both should talk about what to do next. the only reason the whole situation is awkward is because you havent talked about it. the only thing is that you have to respect each other's wants- if she says she doesnt want to, or vice versa, i would hope you would both respect that. other than tht, theres not too much else to tell you except good luck.
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Don't let this oppurtunity fly away like the wind because you may regret it for not taking the chance,think about it if you don't it will most likely happen that she finds someone else,then you won't be able to be with her so take the risk go after this wonderful girl who is interested in you just as you are,and good luck!
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