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My friends are luckier than me.
Okay, well, I'm usually an optimist. I love and appreciate all that I have. I just have one little problem.
Since school started, it seems like all of my friends have had guys who have liked them, or have gotten boyfriends. It all seems so perfect for them, but look at me. I've liked this one guy for a while and he likes me as a friend. I guess I'm still hoping he'll come around and realize that he could like me.
It hurts when all of your friends talk about getting kissed and going on dates and you can't.
What should I do?
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Well firsy of all i think you shuld get over it. So what if your friend s have uys and you don't You should still be an optimist and not be put down by the fact that you dont have everything that you friends have. You sound like you are a littler jealous. So teh guy you like doesn't like you but it is not the end of the world. Since he doesn't like you then you should just be friends with him because he doesn't like you the way you lie k him. Maybe some day he will like you tha awy you like him but for now you wil just have to wait. You shold tell you r friends that you do not like it when they talk about their dates and stuff infront of you. They should stop if they are truly your friends and care about your feelings. Werll hope I helped and i am sorry about the spelling.
Alli<3
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I feel the same as you do as time-not as far as boyfriends lol, but here's some advice. He might just see you as cute because of your tone of voice and facial expressions that's not a bad thing, but if you really want to a relationship with him start flirting and be a little more assertive.
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See, it only "seems" perfect. I mean, yeah it might be for them, but being single can be just as good. I know you'd rather prefer a boyfriend, but sometimes it's better to be single for awhile cause you can meet more guys [ more potential boyfriend ] while a boyfriend probably wouldn't want you to, you have more time to do stuff and hang with friends [ while some boyfriends girls always hang out with and lose time to hang out with others ]. But just keep being optimistic. Your guy'll come along, sometimes it just takes awhile. And I'm sure whenever he comes along, it will be worth that wait and then other girls'll be where you are right now thinking,"whens my guy gonna come along?! they look so perfect! im so jealous!" :] So if the guy just likes you as a friend, I wouldn't wait around. You can't make a guy change his mind. Go out there and meet more guys and flirt a bit, and snag one! :] I hope I helped. <3
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You should stop worrying about what your friends have and what you dont, as you said, you have many things that you are happy with! So what of you dont have a bf??? It doesnt matter! I assure you that as soon as you stop thinking about getting one, and stop looking, the right one will come along!! Love Emma XXXXX
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i wouldnt be that jealous, trust me. having a boyfriend really cramps your time and your lifestyle. who really wants to be attatched to the same guy everywhere they go! i know i certainly dont! dont worry about what everyone else around you is doing. think about it this way...- would you be wanting a boyfriend this badly if your friends didnt have one? dont rush it...your time will come. i know right now, your probably like whoa this girl is craazyyy.. but trust me, youll see what i mean when you get your fair share.. ha.
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You need to know that everyone gets their share in life at a time.Theyre getting the good things now and Gods saving it for you later.Who knows?Mabey later on YOU will be the one talking about your guy while your freinds are the ones listining.Dont rush or feel bad.Every one gets his turn.
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