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when is it the right time to have sex? like what age is it okay to lose your virginity? what's the avg age when people lse their virginity and would it be better to lose your virginity with another virgin or a more experienced person?
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I was 16 when I first had sex. My bf was 15. We were both virgins. We were both very much in love and ready for sex. He moved away not long after (parents decision). I didn't see him again for 3 years, during which I had sex a lot, with a lot of men. I was not always smart, particularly earlier on, didn't always use condoms. I am very lucky to not have gotten very sick or pregnant as a teen. My bf and I got back together again. We are now married over 7 years, and have a 6 year old son and an amazing sex life.
So, because of that experience, I feel that sex before marriage can help you to learn what you want. Many marriages end because of sexual differences. Knowing what you want is important. Knowing you are ready is also important. And that means knowing how to be safe and doing so, and accepting the consequences should they happen.
If you are ready and so is your partner, and you are in agreement on your precautions, then go for it. The average is not the "must have by this time" age. Waiting for marriage is good for some, but not all. It is a completely individual choice.
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better to do it with a more experienced but make sure if to ware a condom. There is a benefit of having sex with a virgin you can do it without a condom if your on the pill..It would be smart to be on the pill...even if you use condoms. Theres no avergae age and even if there wasy ou shouldnt use teh avergae age for your choices. You do it when your ready. the rest is different for certain ppl.
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Don't be pressured into having sex just because other people are. And you should only have have sex with somebody you trust, guys go around stretching the truth to all of their guy friends. I know a girl who had sex at 16 and she wished she had waited longer, because she ended up breaking up with the guy anyways. And you don't need a set age. It is when the time is right and when a condom is in handy. I think 15 would be the minimal age. But you really shouldn't untill you are married & i know you hate hearing that, and your not going to listen because i wouldn't listen to someone that says that either =]
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Jess
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I believe 15 is a okay aqe. but if you feel more comfortable before then do it; but use a condom with spermicide.
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Personally, I think the true, 'okay' age.. for teenagers, is 16. But, if I were you, I'd wait to marriage. Personally, I don't have to throw myself, at some guy to make him like me. But whateverr. I'm pretty sure the average age is 16. Atleast where I live. I think its better to lose it to someone whos a virgin, experienced people, could have STDs. If you plain on doing this, anytime soon.. remember, the huge risk of pregnacy. & diseases. If your a girl, make sure you have birth control. Remember, who do you think is going to be stuck with that baby. Or if your a guy, then... the girl will want money from you when your older, & personally.. I don't wanna be giving a good percentage of my money, away. But, yeah. Just make sure you know what your doing, if your plaining anything.
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The Right Time To have Sex Is When You Are Married Most teenagers Do It When They Are Like 13 and 14 But like That Person Said They Dont know What They aRe Doing..And They Will Regret it..If You Plan On Losing It earlier Then Marriage I Think You SHould Lose It WIth a Virgin Because A More Experianced Person Might Have Std Or Some Kind Of Disease You NEVER know I Hope You Pick To Save it TIll Marriage i Mean Soon As Ur Boyfriend Gets What He Wants He Might Leave You..You Never Know..So I Hope I Helped..
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In my opinion,im only going to have sex when im married because if i have it now with a boyfreind,ill eventually break up with him one day then get another boyfreind and do it with and break up and so on,and by the time im married ill find myself with STD's.You also have to be sure that your not going to regret whqat you have done and know that you can get pregnant even if he uses a condom,they break sometimes.Well,im definetly against 12 and 13 year olds having it cuz they end up regreting it and they dont even know what they are doing.
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When you are old enough to not have to do it in a car or sneak around so your parents don't hear. Also, when you are old enough to get yourself to the GYN and him to the doctor to check everything out and get on the Pill, plus go to the store and buy condoms without being embarrassed or shy. It's not about an age really, it's about maturity, but if you can't even get a drivers license, you are also way too young.
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