this girl is mean to me what should i do? i've tried to stand up to her and that didn't work and i've tried to ignore her but that didn't work either so what should i do?
abercrombie.LvR answered Monday August 7 2006, 1:45 pm: First off... as hard as this sound you just have to feel confident. Ignore what she's saying. The only reason she is teasing you is because you get annoyed by it. When she says something mean pretend you didn't hear her. Not only will that embarass her it will give you and your friends something to laugh at!
yoliv answered Monday August 7 2006, 12:30 pm: hey.
i know how you feel this girl was like that to me. Anyways, if she is just teasing her try talking to your teacher about her. (explain to him/her exactly WHAT she is doing) if this takes place at school. If THAT doesn't work, then talk to your parents and tell them about her and then (if this is at school) tell them to talk to your teacher about switching classes because the girl ditracks you. If the girl thretens to hurt you then tell your parents IMEDIATLY. If you dont then the girl could seriusly hurt you. But if she is just teasing you talk to your teacher or or hang with like a big group of people. (at least 4 other people) But i think maybe ignoring her might work. [ yoliv's advice column | Ask yoliv A Question ]
sunnyville answered Monday August 7 2006, 12:15 pm: If this happens to take place at your school tell your teacher to tell her to stop bothering you,if things get worse than you should bring one of your parents to talk to the teacher about changing her classroom because she constantly bothers you,it distracts you from you learning, and focusing well in school. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
caramella answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:44 am: this might not be your tpe os advice and you might not even listen to it but i went through the same thing,she was a bitch...i was a bitch back and it didnt work so i beat her up....lol!it worked!!Ever since that day shes been too scared to even look me in the face!!muahahAHAHA [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
Elcee answered Monday August 7 2006, 6:55 am: Ignore the advice just given, violence is not the answer. Try asking her what her problem is and if there is any chance of sorting out your differences.
If she refuses to stop being mean then you will have to get a teacher or parent involved. People like that tend to be very insecure in themselves and they make themselves feel bigger and better than you by bringing you down. If you refuse to get upset by her she may eventually give up. If you have other friends you can turn to then ask them to support you if she gets nasty.
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