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my friend with weird AIM convo.
Im 14/f in California. My 15 year old guy friend that lives in Minesota went to his girlfriends cabin for a few days. When he got back this is what he told me over AIM.
me: your back!!!!! yay
me: sup?
him: my gf broke up with me so im really sad
me: awww im sorry
him: it was my fault
me: why? wut did ya do?
him: she invited me up there and it was her dad's bday so i got mad that she said she wanted me to come up and she didnt spend ne time with me and the times that we could i was an ass to her so i messed up big time
him: cause she was the one for me but i guess not for her
me: awwww im sorry
him: i guess im still f&^ked in the head from last night
me: aww
me: are yall just friends now or just gunna like... not even c eachother?
him: we got drunk and had some fun in her bed
him: all her friends thought that we were perfect together and i did too
me: well, im sure youll find someone else thats perfect for you... there are alot more fish in the sea
him: like you
him: i could ran away and come there cuz now there is no one holdin me back lovin me
him: yea so should i
me: no, my parents would get mad, and i just cant do that... my parents would get so pissed
him: and they wouldnt know
me: no, your parents would get mad too
him: they wouldnt know
me: we couldnt do that..
him: why not
me: i just cant do that, i got my life all set up, and i cant have any surprises.. if my parents found out (and they totally would) i have no idea what they would do
him: oh nvm mind i guess every one hates me its ok i get it
me: no, i dont hate u, i just cant do that with my life
him: im gunna go play with a knife now so i will talk to you tom hopfully and i will ttyl lyl
me: dont play with knifes, stop
him: im not gunna hurt my self
him: to bad
me: so wut you gunna do w/ em?
him: cut things
me: oh.. ok
me: not skin rigt?
him: like my arm
me: dont do that, stop it
him: it hurts
me: i kno it hurts, stop it, there are somethings in life you just have to deal with
him: yea the pain
me: stop saying that stuff because i rele dont want to block u, but your scarring me
him: im sry but it is the only way that i get my mind off of it so ill stop
him: there i stopped i promise
me: thank you
him: welcome can i do it when i leave
me: i dont think you should, but its up to u
him: ok ill stop for today i promise
me: thankx
him: no prob well it midnight here so im gunna go to bed so ill talk to you tomorrow ok ttyl lyl bye bye
me: k, bye
me: ttyl
I need to know what to do. I know a lot of you will say report him, but I cant do that to a him... hes never been like this in his life, but I dont know what happened. How do I deal with this. Is there another way to tell him to not move out here for me? I rate.
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I think that he was just generally feeling sorry for himself and talking off the top of his head. He probably wasn't playing with a knife (of course I can't know that for certain), but he was just trying to get a sympathetic reaction out of you.
I also imagine he was not serious about moving to be near you. Again, I imagine he was just talking for the sake of it.
You cannot be responsible for his actions and it was very wrong of him to dump that kind of thing on you if he was cutting.
When you next chat to him, just chat generally about things to keep his mind off his ex. However, if he persists in making you feel bad by talking about cutting and moving, I suggest that you terminate the connection. If you are seriously worried about him then you have a duty as a friend to tell his parents (if you know their phone number), or asking your parents for advice.
It will be very difficult for you to deal with because you are not there in the room with him and are unable to see exactly what is going on with him.
I wish you the best of luck and hope he gets his head sorted out.
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hmm, well you could try to get him and his ex-girlfriend back together. if you know her or know her phone number, just call her and explain that your friend really loves her and he made a mistake. ask his ex to take him back so he wont have to hurt himself anymore. if he gets all his focus back on her, he wont even think about cutting. good luck!
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