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Don't Want To Loose Them!
Sorry, it's long but please read anyways!
Okay, so in 8th grade, I met some of the best friends I've ever had, and in was in 7th that I met my very bestest friend in the world wide world. Basically, 8th grade was like the year we knew who we were friends with and we loved each other and were crazy and it just felt like one big party. (drama included) Not trying to brag or anything, but I had ALOT of friends. I could go to like 5 different groups of friends and fit in perfectly.
The problem? I'm going into high school next year and everyone has said that you will loose alot of your friends from middle school. This is almost definitely going to happen especialy because we are like all really different. I really want us all to stay friends. It's almost as if I can't imagine life without my friends. I know I'll make new friends and everything but does anybody have any suggestions of how I can stay in touch will them and not loose them completely?
By the way, I am pretty busy after school with cross country and horseback riding and stuff.
Oh and please do not say "if they are your true friends, you wil find a way" because I just want suggestions. Thanks!
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Maybe you could call and ask them to do something with you and say i would like to go to teh movies or something like that. You canhelp this and try to geet back together again. You need to try if you dont do something then you will break apart and not to be mean bt it will be your fault. You need to try and call and make plans to be with them. Then you wills tart to get to know eachother better and be friends again.
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hi.
ok so the problem is that you dont want to loose your friends?? Seriusly, even though you dont want me to say this i will, true BFF's will find a way. I have a best friend since kindergarden, and one from pre-k, nad we have stayed friends for almost 6 years and gotten into like one fight. BUT you could have little get-togethers and call eachother alot, or if you and them have IM screen names then you could all talk to eachother. I know this suggestion stinks but i really think that maybe you could (MAYBE) form a little club or somethin. My ratings have been really low lately and i'm thinking my hardest so please try this!!! I might just delete myself if i dont get a good rate!!! :'(
-yoliv
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Think about this, your friends probably are worrying about the same thing that you are. You may have heard that people loose their old friends as they enter high school, but I know alot of people in high school and they still have the same friends that they had in the 5th grade. If you fit perfectly together and you are all happy you won't break up. If there are problems, and every one is mad at eachother, the group may break up because they want to start off the school year with friends that they are happy with. Also, talk to your friends and tell them that you are worried that you will break up, talking heals everything, well, most of the time.
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Like ask them what school they are going to,perhaps come to an agreement to go in the same school or ask for their phone number, and where they live so you can visit them whenever you want to.
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Stop worrying about it! Honestly you will all remain friends and you do have breaks during the day so you can still hang out together.
The only difference is you may not have them all in each and every class. Some will be and you will add friends along the way.
I don't know who told you that you would loose all your middle school friends. It couldn't be more untrue. It will be fun, you'll see. :)
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well in 6th grade n 7th grade i had tons of friends and then i lost basically all of them, not because we lost touched but just because when you get older you realize everyone of your friends arent true to you and you dont need them, and you will realize this as you get older.
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