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me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now. he means everything to me and vise versa. we have been having sex for a few months now but it got out of control. every time we saw each other we would have sex and we didnt want it to start taking over our realationship and having it be all about sex, so we decided to take a little break until our 1 year anniversary. but when ever we are together he wants to fool around. dont get me wrong, i dont mind, i love being close to him but then sometimes hes like i really wish we had a condom. or later that night he will be pissed that we fooled around again. how can i find out what he really trully wants?
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you need to hang out in a place where you can't fool around. Or when hes wanting to fool around remind him about how pissed he got last time. It is really hard to bring it up but its something you need to talk about, when hes fooling around with you, you need to stop it and ask him what he wants!
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If he agreed to the 1 year anniversary, most likely he wants you, and not for sex. Guys are horny, it's in their nature. So now that you've had sex, it will be harder for him to go without it. Give him a break, just talk to him and tell him you really want to wait. Just don't full around with him. That's the only way to make sure you will know what he's really after.
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I think he doesnt mean to be angry or anything, but since you guys went through that phase when sex was a huge factor, he probably got used to it. Maybe you guys should go out next time, and go places you cant have sex so there isnt any bad feelings involved.
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ask him about it becuase he sounds confused. thats the only way youll truely know
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well i can't answer this question very well but try doing something like you both like to do like maybe going to see a movie going out to dinner or like doing some kinda sport. hope i helped i don't know much about that stuff!!
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He probably really wants sex AND really wants to have a happy balanced relationship that isn't all about sex.
But don't worry so much about what he wants. Chances are he is nearly as confused as you are. So straighten him out by telling him what you want. If you want to stick to this deal, say so, and ask him to stop saying things that confuse or tempt you.
If he made this agreement he needs to stand by it. Constantly saying things like he wishes he could have sex with you (even though that might be completely true) is confusing you unfairly and it makes you into the 'bad guy' each time you remind him that you've agreed not to have sex until your anniversary. He is probably just being a bit careless in what he is saying in those moments of passion and needs a little reminder of why you both are doing this.
I think a period of abstinence is a fantastic idea in a relationship, especially if your sex life was getting a bit out of control. So keeping talking about it and try and stick it out.
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