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What are the steps to sex?
I have thought about having sex with my boyfriend!!! but then it seems like it would hurt really badly!!! so what can I do just to keep it from just being so painful!!!
Plz help me!!!
Signed Helpless!!!
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If you tense up because you fear it will hurt, then it probably will.
Ask your boyfriend to take things very slowly so that you are more relaxed and ready to go a bit further. Make sure you are moist down there because that will help too. Also tell him before you start that if it does hurt he must stop immediately so that you can get a little more relaxed.
It is all trial and error to begin with so the fun will be in discovering what works for you. All the best.
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Try not to worry about it too much. If you get too tense about it, then it will hurt more than usual. Of course it might hurt initially (everyones different) but if it does, it will go away quickly.Good luck!
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my first time didnt hurt that bad because right before we had sex the guy fingered me so it wouldnt hurt as bad. tell your boy friend to go really slow and it wont hurt that bad. and remember, after like a minute it will feel great =]
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It does hurt really badly, but if you love your boyfriend it shouldn't matter how bad it hurts. The best thing for you to do is wait until you are ready for this. Some are ready physically and not mentally and others are ready mentally but not physically. If you are really ready to have sex, try lubrication. It will help it slip in easier and become less painful. Other than that you just have to suck it up and deal with it.
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Just both of you take your time. And you must relax. That is the number 1 problem people have and complain it hurts to much.
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