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rumors
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okay well people at my school are saying that my friend stuffs her bra. she does not she is not that kind of person to do that. We are 13and she is a size B but she is not big but it looks like she has big boobs because she is really thin. What do i do i want to tell her that people are saying that but i dont want her feelings to be hurt
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i think you should tell your friend. as long as she knows you don't think that she stuffs, her feelings won't be hurt by you. and she's going to find out sooner or later, so she's better off to find out sooner from a friend rather than later when people are making fun of her. at least if you tell her, she'll be prepared for what's coming.
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well, I would tell her the rumor and that those people are jealous of her, and just stay by her side for support, because rumors are painful.
Also, if you tell the authorities at the school, they might be able to put an end to it.
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Ya know, i had a lot of stuff done to me by rumors, just don't talk with them, don't join in on the gossip. And with your friend, tell her. She'll appresciate it, especially when you tell her and she doesn't hear it from another person, or overhears the gossip with other girls. If she found out you knew and didn't tell her, you can kiss that friendship right on the butt good-bye.
Don't be shy
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Well you could just say something like "I've heard the craziest rumor..." and then tell her. Then if she gets upset just explain that they are jealous and they just wish they could be more like her.
Kate <3
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well i think she will find out sooner or later so maybe you should just tell her when y'all are alone so she doesn't here it from another person, it will be better if you tell her. but she can't let it get to her. no matter what anyone says other people will still spread the rumor, so best thing is to laugh with them, or something like that. she needs to show them that it doesn't bother her. even though it probably does.
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These people are probably jealous, or have nothing better to do with their time. It's nice you are concerned for your friend, but don't let it get to you. If you really are that worried about it, tell her in confidence. She will be happy you told her before she hears it from other people.
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