My best friends boyfriend is transferring schools and they are going to break up on the last day of school because they think its too hard to stay together.. she is crying sll the time and i really feel so sorry for her, but what should I tell her?
MysteryGirl22 answered Wednesday May 24 2006, 4:59 pm: maybe try telling her that this is for the best, and the pain she's feeling now is probably nothing compared to the pain she'd be feeling every single day knowing the her bf is so far away and with all these new girls around him. break ups are always hard, and it will help her feel better that much quicker knowing that ur there to help/ support her when she needs it [ MysteryGirl22's advice column | Ask MysteryGirl22 A Question ]
Paper_Heartsz answered Wednesday May 24 2006, 7:14 am: Yeah, she should end the relationship right away before she falls deeper and deeper for her boyfriend.
The more deeper she falls in love with him, the harder it is for her to get over him, and possibly the more she cries.
Comfort her, and tell her that your always there for her, and that you always have a shoulder for her to cry on.
I don't know if this is going to be a good thing to do. But maybe she should call him, or keep in contact. But then the whole thing would repeat again.
You should just be there for her "Guys come and go."
KrisxOx answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 8:04 pm: well tell her that no matter what your there for her and that she can keep in touch with him by phone or computer...
bayhotpinkgurl answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:52 pm: Well first of all you should try and cheer her up. If that doesn't work tell her taht he will still call her and keep in touch it isn't that big of a deal. First thing is First you know!!!
Vikas0930 answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 9:27 am: Aww I know that's gotta be tough. They should try to seperate themselves from each other before school ends. It will get easier and easier for your friend to be without him trust me. She's gonna be sad and cry and there isn't much you can do. Try to get her to hang out with you and other friends. Avoid any subject involving love...no love songs or romantic movies or anything that might spark a memory where he was involved. Hope your friend recovers fast.
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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday May 23 2006, 2:05 am: Well, I think she should just end it with her boyfriend right now instead of waiting until the last day of school. I understand that they want to be together as much as possible, but she needs to start the healing process right now instead of still hugging him or kissing him as if they are still a couple.
You should let her know that she'll feel a lot better if she'd just end things right now instead of waiting.
As for you: There isn't anything that you can say or do that will take her pain away, but when she's feeling down or crying, try asking her to talk to you about it and listen to her for a while as she vents her feelings to you. Always check on her eveyday and try telling her that it's ok and that she will get through it and she isn't alone.
And mostly, try getting her to go places with you to spend sometime away from home. When you are feeling depressed, it helps a lot when you go out and try laughing with friends even though it's hard. When your friend cries to you, she's just wanting comfort. She wants to feel like everything is ok and that someone cares and that's what you should be to her. Someone that will help her and care for her.
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