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what kind of relationship should i have with this guy?
ok so their is this one boy and i really like him. i finally got the courage to tell him and when i did he told me he like me lots too. i was so incredable happy! then a few weeks after that their was a party that we bolth went to and we hung out and ended up making out on the floor.
but little did i know his ex girlfriend walked in the room and spoiled it. he didnt care but i did it felt so wierd! so i told him and he had been calling me prude. every friday my friends and i go hang out at this place and he was their and we ended up making out their too. but then some how my mother found out and she said that she didnt want me to have any relationship with him. so i tried getting over him. i went to another party and he wasnt their and this one guy i had a crush on for 2 years was their and we ended making out! it was so much fun. but then it got around school. then i found out that the guy i had like for 2 years was going to ask out my friend. and he didnt really like me. i was devistated. then the boy i had made out with twice told me he still liked me and of coarce i still liked him. but then he started flirting with other girls ALL THE TIME! i have been dealing with this FOREVER and the other night i told him i couldnt take it anymore and i couldnt like him i also told him i just wanted to be friends. he sat down and looked like he was going to cry and i dont know if he did because he was wearing glasses. but then he still had enough happyness to be all over another girl. so i felt bad so i went to talk to him and he said that i was the player and the flirt and i told him all the girls he was flriting with that night. then he told me that they where all over him. i had upset him so much he didnt want anything to do with me. what do i do? do i say im sorry? do i stay mad at him for LIFE? what in the world do i do? i NEED advice badly!
if it makes a difference im only 14 and he is too.
thanks! :)
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ok grl you got to ask for forgivness 4rm god and him you praticley cheated on him (if you guys were going out)you made out with another guy when you were goin out with him. grl im sorry!! he was probably flirting with other grlz tomake you jealouse bcause YOU MADE OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY!!!!! get the picture? im srry if im being a lil harsh!!but it kinda upsets me dat you did dat srryy!!!
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well for one you should apologize to him. you shouldn't stay mad at him forever since he doesn't really like you anymore. you should just accept it. even though it's hard to swallow you'll get over it. there are other fish in the sea. and there'll be other guys who will like you and won't be all over girls at a party after you dump them. hope you have a wonderfel summer! good luck! bye
-.christina*
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Tell him that your sorry and that you guys need to work it out but just take it one step at a time and you'll see a difference trust me it happen to me one but for now try to be happy and don't hate him because deep down inside I know he wants you back to he just dont know how to say it
Bella
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Okay, don't stay mad at him for life. Guys get jealous, he was probably trying to get your jealous because you made out with another guy. You probably hurt him, and he tried doing the same thing back. If I was you, I would talk to him on the phone, or in person, alone. Explain that you like him, and that he shouldn't be flirting/kissing other girls when he says he likes you, but either should you. Its important that you admit your faults also so this way he'll see that your not just picking on him. See what he says, and than just play it by year. I hope everything works out for you!
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You need more help than you think. You jump into making out with guys way quicker than you should be. If you were honestly taking your time to get to know these guys, then they wouldn't disrespect you and you can actually trust them.
You are letting these guys get what they want from you and then they run off to get it somewhere else and it gets you upset. You need to slow down with guys and actually talk to them and get to know them before you start kissing them. That way when you see that a certain guy acts flirty around other girls and it's not just you, you'll know that he is not the type of guy you want to start anything serious with. It takes more to a good relationship than just knowing that you both like each other a lot.
Now I see that you never mentioned that you wanted a relationship, but if you are the kind of girl who makes out with a guy after you hardly know him, then don't expect him not to do it with other girls because you did it too. If you don't want to be mistreated, then don't give yourself away so quickly because if they are that kind of guy, they will take advantage of you and do it with other girls.
What you should do is just call everything off with this guy. Especially now since you know for sure that he's been fooling around with other girls. Do yourself a favor and make a uy respect you first.
-TheTeenGirl
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Hi
It kinda sounds to me like neither of you know exactly what you want.
You're both making out with each other, as well as other people. Maybe you're both playing a bit?
I think the two of you need to decide if you want to be together exclusively, and if that's the case then no one else should be involved.
If being together is something that you both don't want, then there is no reason why you should be mad at each other for flirting/making out with other people.
Be careful....it already sounds like your "fun" is being spread around your school, and even though you aren't having sex, people may get the wrong idea and start spreading rumors. That's the last thing you need.
It's time to be together, or walk away.
Good luck,
Brenda
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From what you wrote, he sounds like an asshole that was looking for any excuse to have a fight with you so he can be all over other girls and you'd feel guilty about it. Maybe it was just a one time thing, but you never know. Were you friends with this guy first?
Leave him alone and stay away until he calms down. Then if he talks to you later on, ask him about it.
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