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What should i do...leave him or stay??


Question Posted Saturday May 6 2006, 12:34 pm

Hey guys sup?? Well I've been really into this one guy that lives in staten island ( I live in Jersey) and we really click well together. He lives in this Huge mansion with his parents but rarely has time to come and see me because he works so fucking much. He hasn't asked me out yet but I've only seen him once in the past two weeks..what's up with that. I guess another reason he's not seeing me is because gas prices are sooo expensive now...anyways I really like him a lot but have no idea whether I should start a relationship with someone tht doesn't have time for me. He keeps telling me that once he finishes this college year (he's 20 im 16) he'll have more spare time to see me..but I don't want to keep hoping he's going to come visit me frequently and just get let down all the time. We talk on the phone like three or four times a day and we're a perfect match. I'm really starting to fall for him but I don't want to get my heart broken again...What do I do?? Thanks for your help in advance.. xo>>>

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DefinedEyes answered Saturday May 6 2006, 7:57 pm:
Well there is an age difference, a big one, and I know age is but a number, yes thats true. But age is only a number when you are probably out of highschool. I honestly think its fine to date someone older than you but if your both not in highschool or college, or whatever, your schedules wont fit.
I would just maybe take a break?
your thinking, ahhh no way.
but until he has time for you, then its not worth it.

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