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ok so their is this one boy and i really like him. i finally got the courage to tell him and when i did he told me he like me lots too. i was so incredable happy! then a few weeks after that their was a party that we bolth went to and we hung out and ended up making out on the floor.
but little did i know his ex girlfriend walked in the room and spoiled it. he didnt care but i did it felt so wierd! so i told him and he had been calling me prude. every friday my friends and i go hang out at this place and he was their and we ended up making out their too. but then some how my mother found out and she said that she didnt want me to have any relationship with him. so i tried getting over him. i went to another party and he wasnt their and this one guy i had a crush on for 2 years was their and we ended making out! it was so much fun. but then it got around school. then i found out that the guy i had like for 2 years was going to ask out my friend. and he didnt really like me. i was devistated. then the boy i had made out with twice told me he still liked me and of coarce i still liked him. but then he started flirting with other girls ALL THE TIME! i have been dealing with this FOREVER and the other night i told him i couldnt take it anymore and i couldnt like him i also told him i just wanted to be friends. he sat down and looked like he was going to cry and i dont know if he did because he was wearing glasses. but then he still had enough happyness to be all over another girl. so i felt bad so i went to talk to him and he said that i was the player and the flirt and i told him all the girls he was flriting with that night. then he told me that they where all over him. i had upset him so much he didnt want anything to do with me. what do i do? do i say im sorry? do i stay mad at him for LIFE? what in the world do i do? i NEED advice badly!

if it makes a difference im only 14 and he is too.


thanks! :)

ok grl you got to ask for forgivness 4rm god and him you praticley cheated on him (if you guys were going out)you made out with another guy when you were goin out with him. grl im sorry!! he was probably flirting with other grlz tomake you jealouse bcause YOU MADE OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY!!!!! get the picture? im srry if im being a lil harsh!!but it kinda upsets me dat you did dat srryy!!!

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15/f
me and my friend fight all the time. and it is usally over very stupid things. and i am the one who always trys to make things up between us. and i have known him since i was in second grade. and now we are in a fight yet again. he got mad because i told him that i didnt think he cared about me and he was like blah blah blah dont talk to me and he blocked me. and i havent talked to him since then. And he deleted me as a friend on myspace. which isnt shocking. So my question is that should i try and fix things? or should i just not try and see if he trys and if he doesnt just give up on this friendship.

thanks in advance :)


ok he just being immature,you kno how guyz are.:) he shouldn't be acting like that. give up for a few days and see wat he does just give him some space dats wat i hav to do with my friends. if he doesn't talk 2 you for those few days call him and tell him ur sorry dat u hurt his feelings dat you didn't really think it would bother him so much. well i hope this helps. and i hope you can work things out with him and if not than it wasn't meant to be.

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My mom told my dad three days ago that she wants a divorce. My mom is unhappy and our family is nothing but fighting. My mom told my little brother who is 13 about this today. he is taking it pretty hard. He is also blaming me when i have nothing to do with it. it rally upets me because my brother is saying this whole thing is my fault. well my dad wants to do counsling. he thinks he can change everything but he cant. my mom doesnt want to live like this. so im supose to move out with my mom and my brothers supose to move out with my dad. Im not sure what the question in this is but ive never moved before. my dad mentioned couple years ago that he was going to leave and me my mom and my older brother cried about it. my little brother was to young to understand. im just looking for advice please help

ok from the top i think you should just chill for a sec... ok.. now it's not your fault it's not your brothers fault. your brother is just exajerating because he's upset.so.. dont worry you'll be fine i promise you. ne wayz it would be better for you and your bro cuz you won't hav to deal with thier fighting.i've dealed with this before and it's hard ,but i learned to look at the bright side so.. try to do that and i hope you'll be ok.. byee....;

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me & my friend.
were 14. we act grown up, more then most girls are age.
we really wanna like makeout, at her party. like, i wanna make out with this guy, that likes me & i like him & my friend wansta makeout with her bf.
but we dont wanna have everyone be like, HELLO SLUT GET A ROOM. yano?

so what can we do/say to them?

well just tell them we're not doing ne thing bad jst say we,re jus kissing. tell them "GROW UP!" they do need to grow up if they tell you dat. really i kno this is not the best advice but it's all i got for ya so l8r

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One night last week I was talking to a friend (that is a guy) and I had liked him for some time. We were talking and I told him I had a boyfriend. He got really angry and was like "I cant talk to you if you have a boyfriend" He told me that he liked me and I told him that I had liked him for a long time. He said that if he had known he would have asked me out along time ago.

I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend 1) because he cheated on me and 2) because I liked the kid i talked about above^^

Now my guy friend never really talks to me. I feel like he probly doesnt like me anymore and im really pissed off because I could see myself being with him for a long time. last night when I was talking to him he said "why would you wana talk to me anyways you have a boyfriend" and I told him that I broke up with him. and he goes "ouh well im out bye"

What should I do? I really like him. Maybe Im not ready for another relationship but I like him alot and I have for a while. Do you think he doesnt like me anymore? HELP!

15/f by the way

sorry it was so long

hey grl he still likes you dnt worry . haha:) he just felt stupid being there asking you why you wee talking to him and you telling him you broke up with your boyfriend.he just feels stupid dats all he'll come around you'll see :)) well i gotta go so i hope this helps:)

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ok so theres this kid in my class, kevin and lately hes been iming me a lot and i talk to him more often than usual and i think i sorta have a crush on him...but im really confused about how i feel but the thing is, my friends and i we pick out guys in my class and tease eachother about liking one of them anbd usually the guys are ones that my friends think are, well ugly and kinda losers, and kevin is one of them. Plus i also have a huge crush on kevins best friend michael but im not sure if that is love or lust. Im sorry if im confusing anyone but help!!1 need help! lol...♥

ok well you dnt kno if you like kevin or not right? well do you get butterflies in your stomach when you tlk 2 him? ne wayz you also like his bestfriend and u like him more. so michael is ur guy and if he doesnt like you, there is alwayz kevin.and dnt care want your friends think bcause they aren't gonna go out with them ,you are so you shouldn't give a fuck excusae my language ne wayz i've been through the same problem so your not alone. well i hopethis helps you.

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