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ok so theres this kid in my class, kevin and lately hes been iming me a lot and i talk to him more often than usual and i think i sorta have a crush on him...but im really confused about how i feel but the thing is, my friends and i we pick out guys in my class and tease eachother about liking one of them anbd usually the guys are ones that my friends think are, well ugly and kinda losers, and kevin is one of them. Plus i also have a huge crush on kevins best friend michael but im not sure if that is love or lust. Im sorry if im confusing anyone but help!!1 need help! lol...♥
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ok well you dnt kno if you like kevin or not right? well do you get butterflies in your stomach when you tlk 2 him? ne wayz you also like his bestfriend and u like him more. so michael is ur guy and if he doesnt like you, there is alwayz kevin.and dnt care want your friends think bcause they aren't gonna go out with them ,you are so you shouldn't give a fuck excusae my language ne wayz i've been through the same problem so your not alone. well i hopethis helps you.
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The biggest thing everyone always tells me to do is to follow my heart. Wait a while to let yourself sort out your feelings. Don't let your friends keep you from going out/hanging out with Kevin, if you really do like him. Sometimes you have to hang out a lot with or go out with a person to really see if you like them or not. Do you get butterflies in your stomach whenever Kevin/Michael walks by/walks in the room? if you do, that most likely is love. IF not, its just probably just lust. Of course, you can love a guy and lust for him.
Hope this helps!
<3 ♥ Kaitlyn<3
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I suggest remaining friends with each of these guys. Get to know who they 'really' are before deciding who you like, or if you like any of them. It usually takes some time to really get to know a person, and you usually get the real deal when you're friends. If you rush into things and date people too quickly, often times you don't find out who they really are for a long time. People have a way of presenting only what they want people to see.
You really need to guard your heart and not just give it to any guy you think you might like. Believe me, you will probably like a lot of people before you find the love of your life, but even then you will meet people and find qualities in them that you like, that doesn't mean they're the one for you or that you should go and get involved with them.
I know having a crush can be exciting, but really think wisely before making any and all relationship decisions- it could save you alot of pain and heartache later on.
Also, making decisions off of 'lust' is always a bad idea, no matter how enticing that might seem for the moment, later on you'll most likely deeply regret it.
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