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One night last week I was talking to a friend (that is a guy) and I had liked him for some time. We were talking and I told him I had a boyfriend. He got really angry and was like "I cant talk to you if you have a boyfriend" He told me that he liked me and I told him that I had liked him for a long time. He said that if he had known he would have asked me out along time ago.
I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend 1) because he cheated on me and 2) because I liked the kid i talked about above^^
Now my guy friend never really talks to me. I feel like he probly doesnt like me anymore and im really pissed off because I could see myself being with him for a long time. last night when I was talking to him he said "why would you wana talk to me anyways you have a boyfriend" and I told him that I broke up with him. and he goes "ouh well im out bye"
What should I do? I really like him. Maybe Im not ready for another relationship but I like him alot and I have for a while. Do you think he doesnt like me anymore? HELP!
15/f by the way
sorry it was so long
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hey grl he still likes you dnt worry . haha:) he just felt stupid being there asking you why you wee talking to him and you telling him you broke up with your boyfriend.he just feels stupid dats all he'll come around you'll see :)) well i gotta go so i hope this helps:)
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In my opinion i would just stay away from relationships for now. See what it's gotten you to now? your a 15 year old girl who seeks love, but seek it later. For now, you have school first. If this guy won't talk to you then why bother putting gas in a broken car? know what i mean? anyway i hope things turn up for the best. hope this helps
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Your friend probably feels insecure in your feelings for him. I have to say that his behaviour is a little immature-but that's fifteen year old boys for you. He doesn't sound like a jerk, unlike your cheating ex(well done for splitting up with him BTW).
What you need to do now is speak to your friend again. It might be an idea to call him rather than IM him, even face to face would be good(if you go to the same school. I f not, you could always arrange to meet at the mall or somewhere on a weekend. Your plan should be to ask him out-perhaps on a "pre-date" you know, just hanging out together, not calling yourselves boyfriend and girlfriend . Get to know each other as more than friends. Just tell him everything you have told us, and it should be ok. If he's still stubborn and angry, then perhaps you need to give him time and space to mature. Boys in their mid-teens can be remarkably moody and self dramatising, more so than girls sometimes.Whatever happens, try not to lose him as a friend. Friendships are precious, at times almost more so than romantic relationships.
Good luck,
Lucretia.
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I think it's more out of anger that he hardly talks to you, he probably feels hurt and rejected. Tell him how you feel, that you've always liked him and want a relationship with him and see what happens.
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It could be a posibility that he doesn't like you anymore, but he seems to be overreacting if he got "angry" at you. You can write him a letter and explain to him how you're feeling, why you broke up with your boyfriend, etc. Most likely he'll read the letter... Hopefully things work out.
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