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i cant stand my mom no more she has to no everything. she is ruining my life.i hate her so much. it has got so bad to were i live wit my gram. so how do i get her out of my life?
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Your mum just cares about you,i was in your position at one stage, and i really resented my mum for not letting me do anything, but she really only cares, and wants to now what your up too, and if your happy. I tell my mum everything now, atleast she know what i do, what im up to and who im with, she never nags me anymore. She just wants to make sure your alright. When you get a bit older, you will understand.
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Everyone falls out with their parents. Its perfectly natural. But to want your mother out of your life is silly. Come later on, when you're an adult, you will need your mother for MANY things.. and she wont be there to help you.
Fact of the matter is, your mother does know more than you. She's your mother and its her job to. Its her job to guide you when you go wrong and to be there for you when you need picking up.
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GETTING YOUR MOM OUT OF UR LIFE IS NOT GOING TO RESOLVE N E THING!!! do not do that....your mom only wants to know everything because she cares about you and your life style she wants you to be healthy and happy...she is probably hurt and sad that you dont want to live with her...ive learned from experiance...my sister a couple of yrs ago had a lot of mental isues....she was sent to a mental institute seven times and to a youth shelter twice...eventually she got taken away from my family by the state and was gone for a year...this was all because she hated my mom for alwayz getting in her business she now realized that my mom loves her to death...she went through all of that sorrow and pain just to find out that my mom loved her and hated the fact that she couldnt keep her daughter safe...my sister got sent away so many times because she hated her life and alwayz tried to commit suicide im not saying your suicidal at all...im just saying that i know you dont realize it now but your mom is a big part of your life and im sure shes just watching out for you...maybe she messed up in her childhood and doesnt want you to do the same...really and if you dont think thats it...tell her how you feel...tell her that you dont like to tell her every little thing...you need space...all teen agers do...but im telling you its not the right way to go running away from your problems...maybe talk to a counselor and possibly set up appts. for your mom and you to go in together or possibly seperate...i hope ive helped you in some way...sorry it was so long but ive lived a very stressful and bumpy life and ive been down that path...its not fun...but youll get through it the one thing that you cant do is run away from it or hate her...she brought you into this world and shes got to love you to death....honestly talk to her about it...and good luck in the future!!!!
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Your mom may not be treating you right or you feel that she is being unfair but she will always be your mom.
Everyone has this time in their lives when they just can't connect or relate to their parents. And that usually does cause a lot of fighting. But it's a phase that everyone goes through, and if it isn't just a phase for you, then that's something you have to learn to deal with. A lot of teens think that they'll never get along with their parents ever again just because they had a few huge fights, but that isn't true. Screaming and fighting doesn't change the fact that you are family.
You can't shut your mom out of your life forever. Sometimes it really helps to be away from someone for a while when you feel hate toward them. It can really make you miss your mom and I know what you are thinking, but you will miss her after a while of living with someone else.
-TheTeenGirl
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you cant hate her. this is what i do i sit down and talk to her my mom doesnt ever say a word when i talk fo a long time unless to say something gay.. and i also tell her there is nothing going on with me i dont do drugs,drink,i dont have sex with a zillion guys and so on. but i that doesnt work i sit and watch lifetime movies and say see mom i could be like that but im not you taught me better. and if its rly bad just live with ur gram its exactly what i'd do.
i hope i helped
kristin
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Hi
Oh to be a teenager again, and hate my mom. When I was younger my mom and I fought so much, that we both swore that when I turned 18, we would never see each other again.
I'm 34 now, and my mom and I are best friends. I treasure her so much, and couldn't imagine my life without her.
I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but I'm going to say it anyway.
Your mother has to know everything, because that's what a good parent does. She's not purposely trying to ruin your life, she loves you, and wants to keep you safe. She wants to be involved in your life because she cares about you, and is interested.
Would you rather she didn't give a s**t about you, and couldn't care less what you did or what kind of trouble you got yourself into? Think seriously about that before you answer.
I know it's hard for you to see now, but as you age, you will get it. When you grow up and have kids of your own, you will think..."that's why she did what she did"
There are alot of kids out there just like you, who have parent's who don't care, and trust me, they would love to have your mother. Try and cut her some slack. Maybe if you let her into your life more, she wouldn't pry as much.
Take care,
Brenda
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