im a 15yr/female and ive gots a problem.
i am in a 32 A bra size and i get made fun of because of it.(Except by my boyfriend)...well, when im at school everyone says that they wouldnt go out with me because i basicley have no boobs....know when my boyfriend tries to kiss me there i get nervous and i back away because of my boob size. what should i do? how can i make my boobs bigger? will people like me more then?
Siklops answered Saturday May 19 2007, 3:25 am: dont worry bout what other guys think. they are supossed to like you for who you are, not for your boobs. say if you did have big boobs, then the other guys would just use you. like, they go out with you for one day cause of ur boobs, then some other girl with bigger boobs walks by and they wanna dump you cause the other girl has bigger boobs. its like wtf. your boyfriend doesnt seem to mind how big ur boobs are. and thats the way it should be. he shouldnt like you for how you look outside, but from the inside. if he notices that you back away when he trys to kiss you there, then tell him why. he kinda sounds like the type that would uinderstand, and im sure he wouldnt care either. dont spend your time worrrying about what other people think about you. and dont let it affect your life. be happy and dont worry about what they think. be happy with what you got, and enjoy it. and if people dont like you much because your boobs arent big, then maybe its a good thing they dont like you at all. they arent the type to hang out with i dont think. remember, people should like you for who you are, for your personallity. not for your boobs or your body. enjoy what you have. and dont let what other people think get to you. your life is worth more than just worrying. [ Siklops's advice column | Ask Siklops A Question ]
yboy answered Thursday May 18 2006, 11:04 pm: I'm a boy and to be honest I enjoy A and B any girl bigger than that I don't go out with. [ yboy's advice column | Ask yboy A Question ]
tootsierollsweet999 answered Wednesday April 26 2006, 10:29 pm: -who care what people think your in high school the day of your graduation your ganna be out that door and will never see them again.why are they even looking there gross
thats in my point of view but hers another one
-when somone says anything be like im sorry im not a hoker.why are you looking most in joy the view huh.everyone grows at diffrent rates.
xEVYx answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 8:14 pm: If they don't like you because of your boob size, they aren't worth it anyways. You either have it or you don't. Don't try to fake it, just be natural. Believe it or not, some guys like it that way.
sweetascandy7364 answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 7:41 pm: Hey I feel your pain im a 32A and feel like crap cuz guys wont give me a chance. But look on the brightside you have a boyfirend and he likes you for who you are. You are luckyer than like 1/2 the flat chested girls. Try and think of what you do have rather then what you don't. Remeber guys are jerks when it comes to the looks of girls so just be confinate and you will be alot happyer. Hope i helped I tend to ramble on lol
best of luck!
DarkDesire23 answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 3:26 pm: Screw them!! you are still developing(i think it ends at 18-21,and you never know how rapidly your breast can grow!! )Plus,its all in the face,and in your heart.i mean,i dont have that much either.If a boy can only think about breast,they deffinatly wouldnt be a real boyfriend. also,the year is ending,so next year if you really want to,you should get a push-up or padded bra.im sure there is a way to speed up the growth,but,it probably isnt the healthiest way either.I dont think people should like you becuase of the size of your chest,it doesnt matter by that!! dont worry,dont even think about it.It isnt worth your time.Be happy that you have a loving boyfriend!! People are people,they aree judgemental,and rude sometimes.No matter if you boobs are big or not.This "oh you have nothing" is just and excuse.And besides,you have something!!Like the other girl said befor,gaining weight does add to it,but how much would you gain to have "your perfect size"? The best way is to wait it out,and have paticence.In the end,things will turn out right!Any one who cares only about looks is seriously,retarded.For now,be independant,confident,and just happy!! Best of luck!!
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NakedFaery answered Tuesday April 25 2006, 2:17 pm: Honey, when I was your age I was a 34A. Now 7 years later, I'm a 40F :-P Some people just grow quicker and earlier than others. Give your body some more time to develop. Your breasts will continue growing until you're 18/19, and it's likely they will change in shape and the way they hang before you reach 21.
Any man that won't kiss you because your breasts are too small should be ditched IMO. Intimacy is about comfort and physical attraction, which is so much more than just the size of your breasts. Find someone who will be with you for your personality, not your surface appearance.
Having bigger breasts will get your more attention. It won't always be nice attention. I can get downright frustrating, it has for me in the past, as I went up three cup sizes in 6 months. People will learn to love you for who you are and respect you more if you don't fall to the pressure to have bigger breasts.
There are many shops and online stores that sell bras especially made for smaller chested girls and women. I think you're lucky in the sense that smaller bras tend to be very pretty, and you can wear almost every design. The shape and cut of a lot of BIG bra that larger chested ladies have to wear can be very unflattering and uncomfortable.
Look upon your breasts as a blessing, and an integral part of who you are. Don't pad or stuff your bra. You are a PERSON, you are so much more than breasts. People that will flock to you because of bigger breasts, are much too shallow for you to waste your time on!
One of my female friends has 32A breasts, and she has the most beautiful breasts I have ever seen! Little ones can be great too, so feel lucky! :-D [ NakedFaery's advice column | Ask NakedFaery A Question ]
BellaItaliana166 answered Monday April 24 2006, 11:56 pm: Oh wow i wish i was in your situation. Im 13 and im a 36C. its not fun at all..... people constantly think i stuff or got a beast inplant. which i havnt. and MAJOR back pains!! wow. i guess we have to ajust to the way we are. God made us this way for a reason. and obviously your boyfriend doesnt mind your size and thats a good guy! [ BellaItaliana166's advice column | Ask BellaItaliana166 A Question ]
VixenDark answered Monday April 24 2006, 10:24 pm: Learn to live with it. I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum, myself, and let me tell you, it ain't all rainbows and sunshine here. Be happy you are spared all the stress of a larger chest.
But if it really bugs you, here is the only surefire way to get bigger boobs: gain weight. 'tis true.
herbivore answered Monday April 24 2006, 9:24 pm: hey. everyone feels self consious at some point. i have no boobs either and people do make fun of me for that too. although it may be hard, i think that you should try your best to get over. if ppl make fun of you just say that you are happy the way that you were made. ask the person if they have anything else better to do then too look at your chest ;). but if you feel like you cant get over it then you can get a padded or pushup bra. you can also ask your mom to help you with this. im sure that she will be glad that you were honest with her. just be happy with yourself. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥ [ herbivore's advice column | Ask herbivore A Question ]
dottie4 answered Monday April 24 2006, 9:23 pm: I have the same problem. I'm like totally flat chested basically. These people that say these things to you aren't worth it.There not even worthy of being called assholes. Asswipes maybe. Don't listen to them. Your boyfriend however really seems to love you for who you are. This is a person you really should feel comfortable around. So to answer your question, no I wouldn't change my boob size just because a bunch of little asswipes said some hateful things to me. Also even if you did get breast surgery, they'd still find something else to make fun of you about.(Sorry but it's the truth.) That's how people like that are. They'll find something that bothers you and they'll keep at it. Well hoped I helped you out seeing as I'm in the same boat. [ dottie4's advice column | Ask dottie4 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Monday April 24 2006, 9:17 pm: No, people won't like you more if your breasts are larger... I know guys who make fun of large breasts! People will make fun of other people no matter what.
People will accept you when you accept yourself! Just think of it this way; you don't have to wear a bra, you can wear pretty much whatever you want! I'm a 38D/36DD and it's miserable. I can't even find nice bras to wear!
Remember that everyone's different, and to just be comfortable in your own skin. You'll likely grow and develop as you get older, so don't worry about it. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
XxRockon answered Monday April 24 2006, 9:16 pm: that is crazy!! first of all, guys or people in general shouldn't dislike you because of your boob size..that is rediculous. ..and don't be self conscious around your bioyfriend he obviolsy likes you because of your personality and how you guys get along..so don't be so worried...as you get older you'll reallize people will become less shallow and accepting and more mature..Hope this helps! [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
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