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my wife is 41 year old recently she met younger man and they started loveing each other she love me also but she can not leave him also i am unable to understand what to do
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If your wife is loving another man. theres a problem and you need to get a divorce. she cant have two men. its not right. Just say that you dont want her seeing him because your her husband and if she says no then say its time for a break.
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:'( She can't truely love two men. I suggest making her choose between you or the other guy. If she can't choose or she chooses the other guy.. sorry but you need to leave her! She is not treating you right, and you need to take action.
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hey, she is cheating on you! you need to get out of the situation if she doesnt want to leave him. talk it out with her first tho. tell her that you need to be the ONLY man in her life and that if shes unwilling to accept that then your going ot have to leave her. cait♥
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You are a man that cannot be inderpendent enough to tell your women that it is either you or the younger man.
Men and Women are all different, men prefer the look of a sexy womens body, while women prefer the face and personality of a man. I may be wrong, though I think the majority of the time that would most probably be the best answer.
Your wife is married to you. Don't stand crap like that. In a way she is cheating on you. She obviously thinks there is something that younger man has got that you hav'nt. Maybe it is you? Maybe it is her?
I think you know the answer to that one. If it is you, talk to her, tell her what he has got that you hav'nt got. If it is her, let her do her own thing, let her try to understand how life is without you.
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Can you live with her having two people in her life? If you can't, then do you think you want to cool it for a while so you can think about how it is not living with her, and she'll know how it is not living with you.
She could be having a midlife crisis or maybe she's telling you something. Is it something in the marriage not satisfying her? Talk, don't yell or anything, just ask her what it is?
Good luck
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Nobody can tell you how to handle this situation. Each person reacts differently to cheating.
Personally, I'm all about TRUST and cheating destroys trust. If this were ME, I'd leave.
If she loved you and your family, she would not have betrayed you all. That's the EMOTIONAL answer regarding cheating.
Here's my PHYSICAL response - With all the diseases out there, Cheating is not just an emotional betrayal - it can kill BOTH of you.
Therefore, a cheater is the most selfish type of person I know. Why would you want to hang on to THAT?!
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Your wife? So I assume you are married? That is ubsurd. You need to have a conversation with her and straighten all this out. If she is married to you, she vowed to be with you. Not you and someone else. No one on here can really solve your problem, I'm sorry. But the answer for leaving her or staying with you is going to have to come from your heart, as corny as it sounds.
Good Luck and I hope all works out for you!
-Ali
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