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i need advice
Ok there is this friend were ONE minute...they are so nice...and next they are mean and snotty...i also hear from other people that they are talking bad about me and making fun of me...idk what to do...should i just never talk to them again?..HELP
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There are 2 options here:
1. Confront them.
2. Forget about them.
With the first, you sit down, talk to them, and let them know what's up. Tell them you don't appreciate their bipolar friendship game, and you'd like for it to stop because true friends don't treat you like that.
With the second, you just stop talking to them and find new friends who don't dump you one day and talk bad about you after doing so. You find a new group of people that you enjoy hanging out with, who will treat you right.
The decision is up to you, but I advise a combination of the two. I think you should talk to them, and find new friends to hang out with, too.
-Laura (17-f)
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Hi, I know what boat your in.
Infact at my high school theres many different "clicks" and one of them uses nice people like you.
They will act all nice and everything when they need something but the minute you say something that isn't in their vocab. they make sure you feel different. For example. The people at my school used this one girl and they told her to hang out with them they had to be skinny, so she basically starved her self!
***So I say dump them, even if their negetivaty isn't to that extreme! Chances are they probabley are talking trash about you! So stand up tell they are rude jerks and find someone people who might apreciate your presence in their lifes!!!
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Stop hanging out with them and definitely stop talking to them. If they're gonna be fake, they don't deserve your friendship.
Ditch them, and find yourself some real friends.
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Okay, i've beeen in this situation a lot.
and it's really just a matter of trust.
Ask the girl/boy if they have.
Don't mention any names of people who have tolf you, because that just causes more trouble.
They'll probably say no though, lieing or not.
So, this is what i've always done.
Get a close friend, that you trust.
And ask them to do you a favor, and hangout with them a little.
Maybe bring your name up, and see what they say!
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I hope this helps!
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well it seems as thought there is alot of drama going on right now. how liable is your source that is telling you other people are talking about you behind your back? could they be lying? The best thing to do, is not become total enemies with these girls, but distance yourself. Limit how much information you give them about personal things and gossip, if it is true that they are talking about you behind your back, talking behind theirs is just adding fuel to the fire.
Good luck!! if you need any more help or advice, inbox me at my column, xosodapopx3
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