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pregnate at the age of 13
i'm pregnate and thats because i got raped and i was wondering in the futer will it make my chances of getting pregnate harder and do you think people will judge cause my kid will be 12 when i am 25 and will it ruin my chances of getting a boyfriend
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The chances of you getting pregant will be exactly
the same. Next time your pregnant though, it may be easier to give birth. Some guys are scared of kids, but I'm sure if you find the right guy..he'll understand! People will judge for sure, just because thats how people are but nobodys perfect. Just ignore them! You were raped, it's not your fault. Good luck with the baby and everything!
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It won't make your chances of getting pregnant any smaller in the future. As long as the pregnancy carries out allright, you will still function normally.
As for judging you, people likely would. Much as it may hurt, I would suggest that, if your parents are supporting you through this and you don't want to give up the child for adoption, you should let them raise the child as your sibling. It would be better for the child, as no 13-year old, no matter how mature, has the capabilities and time to raise and support a child while getting an education and continuing with a semi-normal life.
If you do keep the child as yours, it will likely scare away men until you are considerably older, since no teenage boy wants to get involved in a relationship where he has to be a father figure; they're just not ready for the job.
I know the truth is harsh, but I'm trying to answer as honestly as I can so that you and your child have the best lives possible.
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