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Okay so i'm dating this guy named Brett.. and all he ever does is talk about himself and i cant stand it. like i was upset one night about me missing my dad(( he passed away 2 months ago and we were close)) and hes like your life isent bad... and im like yeah okay.. and he was like what im like i miss my dad and hes like well i miss my dad too who knows where he is((he moved to a diff. state)) im sure my life is worse than yours. im like yeah thanks. w/e... and all i ever hear about is himself and it drives me insane i mean cant one thing be about me .. << i know that sounds exstremly selfish but im serious. i cant stand it. and i dont know what to do
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drop him if all he does is talk about him self espesaliy if some from your family died and still does not try to comfert you should drop him. if i was dating you and found out your father died i would be try to make you happy, buying you a gift, lisening to you, just trying to help you though life. he's a jurk if he is not trying to help you get through this, he must not care about if he is not helping you!
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Tell him you want to break up explain to him why then maybe he will change and take you a little seriously!!
So sorry about your dad he is still with you watching over you
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Dump him. =[ He's selfcentered & selfish. If all he ever thinks about is himself & that's all he ever talks about, then he's a pretty big jerk who doesn't deserve to have a girlfriend. Just dump him, because that's not what you need.
Sorry for the loss of your father.
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You aren't selfish at all, he is smothering you. Break up with him, he won't get better. He is mostly showing off, but that doesn't give him permission to act like that. If you don't feel like it is sooo serious that he will never change, talk to him about it, then give him a little while, then if he doesn't change, split. There really isn't much you can do about the way he acts. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Break up. I mean it might hurt him but if he asks why tell him that all he ever does it talk about himself. When you lost your dad did he ever try to confort you? If he didn't he's not worth it. If he only thinks about himself then what do you think he's going to do if you get hurt. Not do anything or help you. most likly do nothing.
sry jen
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Is someone holding a gun to your head and ordering you to date this guy? I don't mean to sound insensitive, but you do have the ability as a human to make decisions for yourself. It's called free will. I do understand the pressures to date someone and to be popular, but you need to take care of your own needs first, otherwise you will look back years from now and wonder why your life is so unfulfilling. A relationship is a two-way thing. If you are giving and not receiving, then you have a right to ask for his attention and interest in you in return. It is not selfish to want to be in a relationship in which you are getting something back in return as well.
I know that I've been in relationships that have not worked. It's not a bad thing when this happens. But you live and move on and learn from them. With each new relationship, I've learned new things about myself and about what I want out of relationships. Now, you know that you want someone who will pay attention to you and who is truly interested in you, your feelings, and what you have to say.
If you do want to try to make this work with Brett, then you need to tell him point blank: "When you disregard my feelings and what I have to say, I feel hurt." You then await his response. If he apologizes and makes an effort, you can help him to become interested in you. If he again turns it into something about him, then you need to make a decision. Do I continue to be ignored? Or do I respect myself enough to walk away?
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Ok, no offense but it really sounds like your boyfriend is a big jerk. He has no right to say who's life is worse, in fact it doesn't even matter he should just try to comfort you, not argue with you about which of you has a worse life.
I think your only options are to either confront him about it (he will probably deny it), or you can just leave him. And I would recommend leaving him, because you do not need to deal with a guy like that.
Well I hope everything goes well.
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