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too inocent
my girlfriend thinks that im too innocent, how could i change? I hardly know any sexual slang,ect.
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You shouldn't have to change for her. If she is a good girlfriend she will accept you for who you are. If she doesn't then it was realy her loss because what kind of girl wants a guy that is always horney?
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Changing because somebody wants you to is just plain stupid. Changing to please somebody else is just plain stupid. Changing for anybody but you is just plain stupid.
Yeah, repeats, but I'm being serious.
Sexual slang? What's it matter if you know that or not? Psh, half the time people use sexual slang I don't know what they're talking about, I ask. Yeah we laugh and go DUH, but what does it really matter.
Unless your girl is a total whore she won't care if you are "too innocent".
Being innocent is a good thing.
Honestly though, how many people do you really think are going to stay virgins until they're married. Most of my friends have had sex, heck I'm going to my friends baby shower in about 2 months, but a lot of people like the thought of being someone else's first, it's comforting, and it's cool to know that they waited for you. Don't you think? Even in the least bit.
If you are worried that you're "too innocent" even though there really isn't such a thing, then take a in depth health class or visit your local health department to catch up on some of the things you must have missed over the years.
But seriously, my opinion, be an unconformist, don't follow the croud unless that is the path you truly want to take. (totally made that up in english class today... that was part of my thesis statement on a promp)
Anyway, just an opinion, you don't have to follow it, but do what you want to do, not what somebody else wants you to do.
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Personally, I would be proud to be considered too innocent.
but if you want to change, start small, with practical lokes on people. and yes, practical jokes are innocent, but have a rep of less innocent. SO it chould work out.
don't have any ideas for practical jokes?
how about tickling people when they are asleep.
(with fingers or feather, your choice)
but if you try them and it doesn't feel like you, STOP.
remain happy in your innocence. and if the girl dumps you, she is not good enough. you want one who will respect you for who you are. Don't change yourself just for the sake of others.
Cj
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changing cuase somebody wants you to is bad.
you might as well be a herd animal.
just accept what you are.
btw why dont you peopel just serch slang on google?
Solemnstar
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Yeah, my boyfriend think the same way about me too, but I am a girl so... Anyway, you shouldn't try to change. Changing just something this big about you is very very bad. Once you change for the smaller things, then the big things will overwhelm you with change and you will change the person who you already are. And from what it sounds like, you already are your own person and that kind of identity takes people years to find. It's hard to break the habit of changing, or any matter, when you begin to do so. So don't change. You don't want your girlfriend to like you for something that you are trying to be. You should want her to like you for WHO AND WHAT you are. Not for something that YOU'RE TRYING TO BE. If she doesn't like or understand that, then you'll obviously have to face the fact that it wasn't meant to be.
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well first off you shouldn't have to change. especially for your girlfriend..but i would just talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. dont do what you're not comfortable doing.
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If your girlfriend is making fun of you because you have a lack of sexual knowledge/slang, then talk to her about it. You can't change for someone..even if you do love/dating them. She either accepts you for who you are or leaves you...but it'd be shallow if she did. You're probably a nice person who doesn't focus their concentration on sex...
Don't change..for ANYONE!
x Steph x
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Too Inocent,
Look if your girlfriend thinks your too inocent thats her issue. I'm sure your a really nice person you don't need to know all this sexual slang. Just be you don't change unless it's for you not anyone else. Hey in my books individuality is all that counts.So Be yourself.
DA
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if you really like her change for her in a completely good way she will then know what she means to you
i hope i helped
<333kristin
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Tell her to teach you some things she knows. You will be less innocent and it will be fun for you both ; ).
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xXx
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