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Confused PlZ HELP
I am a very popular female at mi highschool, and mi highschool is known for a lot of lesbians and gay males. It is crazy because I always said how it was nasty to date the same sex. Well I am realizing that I am attracted to females. Well it's one inparticular tho. It's like no one turned me out or ne thing I just catch mi palms sweating wen I get around her and me daydreamin' about her. It's even more crazier because we are so close. I don't know what to do, maybe it's just lust but I really like her. I am afarid because mi cousins would kill me if they knew, I want to tell her but don't know how. Should I give hints or just tell her? Wen would be the right time to tell mi bf and mi fav. cousin. It's not like I care if others know, I just need those three people to kno. PLEASE HELP me, rate 5's for any useful advice
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Well I was at the point you are about a year ago. Anyways, you may be bi/gay, but then again you may just have a simple crush.
It happens. You aren't necessarily gay or bi. Just give it time, and let yourself feel what you feel.
Don't be afraid of it and don't worry.
If you do realize you are gay (or bi) don't tell people right away. Let yourself get used to the idea before you tell your good friends. If you have gay friends, they are great and I recomment coming out to them first. If you ever need help, i'm here!!
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ok, so you should first tell your cousin and best friend(s). they may be suprised that you suddenly went gay, but if they are you true friends, they will treat you the same. after that, you should should give hints, and see how she reacts. after that, if she seems to like you back, tell her you like her, and if you can't do that, ask her out to someplace where couples go but friends can go to, like a fair, and see where it goes from there.
ALiCiA *♥*♥*♥*
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This is a real toughie.
When it comes to telling the girl herself, just be careful that she won't freak out... is she attracted to girls too? Other than that though, just let her know in the same way you would if she was a guy you liked.
When it comes to the bf, be careful, because it might hurt his feelings that you have a thing for someone else, even if it isn't a guy.
The cousin though... if she's prejudiced against gays/lesbians... that will be really hard. I'm not sure what you'd do about that one.. Just let her know very matter-of-factly, and you'll have to kinda deal with whatever she says.
good luck!
<3 maddie
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Well, this isn't going to be easy I can start out by telling you that right now. Just start out by going up to the girl you like and since you two are close, just tell her that you are a lesbian. She should understand since your close. After that she may ask who it is you like and then is the time to say that it's her. and for your bf and cousin, just sit them down (you dont have to at the same time) and calmly explain to them that you're really confused and that you think you may be a lesbian. your cousins family and your bf should always be there for you no matter what. it may shock them at first, but it's fine. you can't help what you really are.
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